CalicoKat Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 in his back is too much..... 1. go anyway with the kids 2. stay home (dirty house that I finally decided was OK to just let go this week as a coping measure for life's crappiness) 3. Other? Son's been counting down the days since 364 days ago. Already called and canceled with the inlaws since I can't do that alone no matter which option we choose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Homeschooling Again Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Unless dh needs help going to the bathroom or perhaps you should take him to the urgent care center, he's a big boy (but ds isn't), so I'd take the kids and celebrate ds's birthday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WistfulRidge Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I agree... unless your DH needs to be taken to urgent care and/or can't manage the bathroom on his own I'd ask him if he wants you to bring him back anything and then take the kids out. DS deserves to have his birthday celebrated and I'm sure it would be nice to get out for an hour or two, especially if someone else is cooking/serving/cleaning up dinner! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristusG Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I agree... unless your DH needs to be taken to urgent care and/or can't manage the bathroom on his own I'd ask him if he wants you to bring him back anything and then take the kids out. DS deserves to have his birthday celebrated and I'm sure it would be nice to get out for an hour or two, especially if someone else is cooking/serving/cleaning up dinner! :iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalicoKat Posted March 23, 2011 Author Share Posted March 23, 2011 DS chose to go ahead with his dinner without Dad. I know he was concerned that it'd never get done otherwise. For one life reason or another things tend to be get canceled around here regularly. We weren't the only mom-only chaperoned birthday dinner present. I noticed another lady across the way. We nodded and shared a smile. Dad got take-home lasagna from Olive Garden which he ate while laying on the floor icing his back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 Sounds like you did the best you could for everyone. I hope you dh's back heals soon. DS chose to go ahead with his dinner without Dad. I know he was concerned that it'd never get done otherwise. For one life reason or another things tend to be get canceled around here regularly. We weren't the only mom-only chaperoned birthday dinner present. I noticed another lady across the way. We nodded and shared a smile. Dad got take-home lasagna from Olive Garden which he ate while laying on the floor icing his back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Margo out of lurking Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 DS chose to go ahead with his dinner without Dad. I would have encouraged my ds to make the same choice. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalicoKat Posted March 23, 2011 Author Share Posted March 23, 2011 Sounds like you did the best you could for everyone. I hope you dh's back heals soon. he's going to the pain management specialist in a hour. It's an hour too long. I'm hoping they give him a shot of something really strong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfgivas Posted March 23, 2011 Share Posted March 23, 2011 :grouphug: your poor dh.... and poor you, too! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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