I guess I look at it differently.
I appreciate how everyone desires their children to go to college.
But, college isn't for everyone. Your job is just a way to provide for your "needs" and "desires". What good is it if you are not happy with the job that you have?
I look at things differently, for I have seen the results of my late husband (now deceased) not liking his job. I only want my children to be happy. If their career (love) doesn't require a degree, so be it. Making the "big bucks" doesn't make one happy, though it makes life easier.
I believe that God has different plans for each of our children, and as a parent I cannot make that decision, but only help, support, and guide my children.
Kelley