I am new here, but reading this post has been so good for me! I am going through all of this and it is so frustrating!
I have a 4yo DD and she has always been ahead. I am just an average kinda person, but DH is gifted, so I was not shocked when she started doing things very early. I have not had her tested or anything, and I don't know that I ever will, but I am having a hard time with finding others who get what it is like.
DD started reading simple CVC words at 2.5 and now at 4 is reading most advanced beginner type readers. At 2.5 she asked for a workbook and we went through a PreK one. Now at 4 she is doing mostly all 1st grade curriculum and some 2nd. I am tired of never being able to share without it being called bragging. I am tired of the looks I get and the other parents who tell me I am pushing too hard or that kids shouldn't need curriculum until they are older. My DD LOVES school the more workbookey the better in her opinion.
What a breath of fresh air to find people who relate!:)