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  1. So what is the difference between anorexia (which is not about food) and extreme dieting (which is about food)?

     

    In a simple nutshell:

     

    Extreme dieting is something someone "goes through" and it stops. People extreme diet to look good at their high school reunion or bikini season or wedding.

     

    Anorexia is a "lifestyle". It's the way you live and it's something you just don't "go through" and stop. Your mind needs to be rewired to think "normally" about food, eating and yourself.

     

    This is why people who seek help for an eating disorder should see someone who specializes in it. Because anorexia isn't something you wake up one day and say "I want to be anorexia". It's much deeper and darker than waking up and saying "I want to lose 10 pounds before my reunion next month". (extreme dieting)

  2. Or am I just being naive in thinking that I can prevent her from slipping further without professional involvement?

     

    Yes. If it is a true eating disorder, it simply does not just go away. It's a life long struggle because everything needs to be rewired - your relationship with food, how to eat again, your relationship with your body, etc, etc, etc.

     

    If you seek professional help, I can NOT stress this enough: find someone who SPECIALIZES in eating disorders. EDs are a world of their own, full of secrets, quirks and lots of other things that just a "regular" professional has absolutely no idea on how to deal with.

  3. I wear powder cover up if we go somewhere and a touch of blush in the winter and no blush in the summer. If it's a super special occasion, I will put on lip gloss. I don't wear any of this if we stay home all day. I do use chap stick regularly for dry lips.

     

    I don't know how to put on eye makeup like eye liner and mascara. Nor do I own any.

     

  4. Big girl will be a 3rd grader next year:

     

    English, Spelling and Heritage Studies - BJU 3

     

    Math - tough one...Singapore 5 maybe (I don't know if I can teach it) or something else that she can do herself for our main program with supplements of LoF, MEP, iPad apps and anything else that floats her boat

     

    Science - interest led, probably something Chemistry

     

    Other stuff - 4H, art, music, reading, crafts, PE, baking/cooking, etc, etc.

  5. New York has a late cut off so almost 5 year olds are also being shipped off to school. I started school at almost 5 as well and turned out fine. (imo!)

     

    As for the "mom going off to work" thing going on in this thread, I was still sent to school even though my parents were (are) self employed and the office was (is) at home. My mom stayed at home since she managed the office. She had no intention to home school so I went to school. So it's not always a "parent wants to go off to work" situation.

     

    The bottom line: each family runs the way it sees as best for THEM.

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