Haiku Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 I have realized that while I'm an introvert, a good party, shopping expedition or other event with the masses, periodically is fun too. Yes. There seems to be a popular misconception that introverts dislike social interaction. I don't think that's true. I am an introvert and I really enjoy getting together with friends. What makes me an introvert is that I am not recharged by that. I have to have time by myself to recharge. My guess would be that if mentally gearing up for being with people, being with people, and spending energy processing being with people is an ordeal, that's something different than being an introvert. Tara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhM Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Oh my, absolutely. Socializing kills me to no end. Even talking, talking, talking w/my kid. I feel so bad when I do this, but some days, by the end of the day, I have to ask dd's (and dh) to stop talking to me! I just need "alone-ness" and since that isn't physically possible, at least stop directing thoughts or questions to me! They think it's crazy, but they usually honor my request! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathmom Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Yes. There seems to be a popular misconception that introverts dislike social interaction. I don't think that's true. I am an introvert and I really enjoy getting together with friends. What makes me an introvert is that I am not recharged by that. I have to have time by myself to recharge. My guess would be that if mentally gearing up for being with people, being with people, and spending energy processing being with people is an ordeal, that's something different than being an introvert. Tara Tara, I am more like you, but maybe the people who have said that they have issues with social interaction are further along the introvert continuum than you and me. Possibly? Another thing is just developing confidence, having social skills and knowing how to talk to people. It wasn't until I started going out with my extravert husband that I learned how to talk to people much more easily. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Yes. There seems to be a popular misconception that introverts dislike social interaction. I don't think that's true. I am an introvert and I really enjoy getting together with friends. What makes me an introvert is that I am not recharged by that. I have to have time by myself to recharge. My guess would be that if mentally gearing up for being with people, being with people, and spending energy processing being with people is an ordeal, that's something different than being an introvert. Yes. I'm socially outgoing, chatty and do well in groups. I am also a great public speaker. However, it absolutely drains me to prepare for those events, "do" those events and I need space before and after. For me, introversion is not related to anxiety. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newbie Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Started social group for all us WACI(WendyK get credit for name). I can be an extrovert there, while maintaining my introvert status. Plus, I can vent my woes during the holidays, I cant stand the social get togethers, love to ship gifts and cards and phone. I can do w/o all the hubbub. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newbie Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 I will really feel like an introvert, if I am there by myself. Ironic?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Virginia Dawn Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 I can't remember where I read this (but I'll try to find it and give due credit!) but the thought was about introverts and all the mental/emotional/physical energy expended when going out, socializing, etc. etc. Energy is expended three times for each event-before the event while mentally preparing for it, during the event itself, and then after the event while processing all that happened. What do you think? I've finally realized what an introvert I truly am and I agree with the thoughts above but wanted to see what others had to say about it. Thanks! Jennifer I am an extreme introvert and I would have to agree. But I also think there are degrees of introversion. As for me I can still expend energy on an event years after it happened. :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathmom Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 I am also a great public speaker. I am also good at public speaking and enjoy it. It makes it easier for me because I have the floor! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcconnellboys Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 I don't know, but I can tell you that after a big day of being out amongst a whole lot of people with whom I must actually engage, I MUST be alone and sometimes I have to even go take a nap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
herbalgirl Posted December 12, 2008 Share Posted December 12, 2008 Where do we find the social group? I will join in so you won't feel all alone! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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