Heather in Neverland Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 (edited) What do I do with myself now? Who am I when I am not "the one who is trying to get a visa for her daughter"? For the last two years I have spent so much time and money and mental energy on this process and now that it is over I feel like I am wandering around in circles and bumping into walls. I am thrilled. Don't get me wrong. But I feel ... I don't know... Weird. :tongue_smilie: . Edited January 13, 2012 by Heather in NC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lillysmom216 Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 I felt that way after my wedding. ;) A big, huge congratulations to you and your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bensmom Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 LOL I feel that way whenever I've busted my hump for something and then it's finally done. I wouldn't worry, something else will come up. ;) :iagree: Hopefully the next project won't be so challenging, but there are always more projects just around the corner. Enjoy the down time;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalicoKat Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 What do I do with myself now? Who am I when I am not "the one who is trying to get a visa for her daughter"? For the last two years I have spent so much time and money and mental energy on this process and now that it is over I feel like I am wandering around in circles and bumping into walls. I thrilled. Don't get me wrong. But I feel ... I don't know... Weird. :tongue_smilie: . :hurray::hurray: You got it! Now you're the Travel Agent Extraordinare for your visit to the US. :D:party: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 Enjoy the present moment.........:001_smile:..........something is always coming down the pike. I felt that way after I was totally finished with infertility treatment (3 children later). THEN, we sold and bought a house. Then, we moved to Washington DC with three children under the age of 19 months. Then, we moved back to NJ for 6 months. Then back to DC. You get the idea.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rwjx2khsmj Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 Throw a visa party. An accomplishment like that needs to be celebrated! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted January 13, 2012 Author Share Posted January 13, 2012 Throw a visa party. An accomplishment like that needs to be celebrated! I like that idea!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scuff Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 I feel like that every year after I'm done curriculum buying. :) Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colleen in NS Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 What do I do with myself now? Who am I when I am not "the one who is trying to get a visa for her daughter"? For the last two years I have spent so much time and money and mental energy on this process and now that it is over I feel like I am wandering around in circles and bumping into walls. I am thrilled. Don't get me wrong. But I feel ... I don't know... Weird. :tongue_smilie: . :lol: Go fix some more curriculum at your school. That'll give you a new project. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Audrey Posted January 13, 2012 Share Posted January 13, 2012 Things I would do with that extra energy and time: cuddle the kid -- or in your case, kids make more TEA (or however it is you spell the one that means sex). ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted January 14, 2012 Author Share Posted January 14, 2012 Things I would do with that extra energy and time: make more TEA (or however it is you spell the one that means sex). ;) :D You get two enthusiastic thumbs up on this idea. Oh hubby.... where are you? :leaving: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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