Math-U-See users and lovers- please do not mistake my question as a criticism. I have a genuine desire to know your thoughts after using this curriculum for your child. For some reason, after viewing this product and demo at our convention, online demo and many, many reviews, I have this nagging feeling that the amount of stress placed on the manipulative work is a bit of an over kill.
My background - My 9yo daughter was homeschooled last year (3rd grade) after coming out of ps and not having even a basic understanding of how to regroup an addition problem. We went back to 2nd grade level math and worked hard this year to bring her up to a 4th grade level math. Unfortunately, I taught her the same way I was taught. She knows the steps, but not the why.
I, like so many of you, want my child to understand math and enjoy the wonder of it, not just follow "rules" with no idea as to why and how it really works. I was hoping Math-U-See would help her with this since she needs more than just language to really grasp a concept. She really needs to "see" it work.
Specifically, my questions are:
1. Do the children become dependent on the manipulatives to do the problems? The feeling I got from the demo was that the stress was on the manipulative, not necessarily on the ability to look at a problem and quickly "see" the big picture. I would like to be able to use manipulatives to introduce concepts and for problems in comprehension, but I am not sold on the idea that a manipulative is needed for every problem.
2. Do any of you feel there is so much concentration on one concept that the other concepts are forgotten? An entire year on addition and subtraction of single-digits seems excessive to me. Did any of your children get bored with the pace?
3. Did any of you supplement this program, or use this program as a supplement for other ones? What about all the other wonderful math concepts that standardized testing requires knowledge of (just a little sarcasm there)? Are word problems and real-life math covered?
4. Finally, does anyone know of a good book for parents that would teach me how to teach my child mental math in a condensed, straight-forward fashion. I'm looking for a book (or website) that teaches the "tricks" and tips that make math fun and interesting. I have game books like "Family Math" and have read sites such as the living math website, but I was just wondering if anyone has seen a good straight-forward source for mental math (not asking for much, am I)?
Thank you for your input and help. After two months of math curriculum review and agonizing over which one to use, I thought it best to go straight to the unbelievable wealth of knowledge and experience on this forum.