My dd just turned 11 and she does not love learning either. I think that I have also inadvertently encouraged lazy habits. She has some learning issues that fueled that. I am changing that though. We are doing summer school, much to her displeasure! She is waaaay behind in math and her penmanship is awful! I think some children are naturally good learners, but others need to be forced into it. Education is a discipline, not a good time. She does enjoy crafts, geography, and science though.