In regards to R&S, none of my children hate language. One is finishing up 5, another is midway 4, another in 3. They love the confidence it has given them to be able to write well. It is similar to drilling math facts and simply doesn’t take much time. Do they love R&S? No because it is work, but they love what it has produced. Other writing programs have been a breeze for them (I have one doing writing strands and one doing IEW Middle Ages theme this year)- not because I saw a gap in writing, but because their program recommended it. We do not skip anything in the student book, everything except oral drill is written down in a notebook, and occasionally we use the teachers manual. For me, it is the simplest to teach and that is what is most important. If the fun activity based program doesn’t get done & sits on a shelf… then what’s the use? Get what YOU can teach reliably most days. All the materials I use are open and go, and have a similar format because I am the one teaching. I need to be able to use the material reliably.