This brings me close to tears.
My dd13 is profoundly disabled, in a public school classroom. If I could possibly support her needs at home during the day, I would. But I can't.
Her behaviors can be challening, she requires diaper changes, and I'm sure she drools on her teachers sometimes. From the outside, her teacher and aids seem like wonderfully patient, warm people. But it is beyond disturbing and heartbreaking to think that they could be losing patience behind closed doors:crying:
I understand what some others are saying about being human and "losing it" sometimes. This is sooooo different, though. If we can't be humane with the most vulnerable in our society, that is an injustice that can't be tolerated. Yes, it can be a difficult job, which is why it is not for everyone. Mistreating children that can go home and tell their parents is wrong; doing it to a child who can't (like my dd) is evil.
I am so sad right now.
Lisa