leeannpal Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 This spring, our female cat got out and got pregnant. She was only 5 months old, and I had heard that it advisable to wait until 6 months to get her fixed. So, in early July, 4 kittens were born. They are now 7 weeks old, and we have managed to find a good home for two of them. A teacher I work with really wanted the other boy kitty we still had. So, we took her the kitten yesterday. Now, keep in mind, they had a German Shepherd already, as well as, a female cat. This morning she calls and wants to give the cat back because it isn't getting along with the other animals. I don't know what to think. Part of me feels that, if they took the kitten in good faith, it is now their problem. Of course, since I love cats, the other part just wants to go ge the kitten and try again. In order to keep a good working relationship, I'm sure we will go get the cat, but I'm sort of miffed. What would you guys think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 She did this after a day?! Of course they're not getting along yet :glare:. Has she tried keeping them separated? I guess I would try to see if she's willing to listen to common sense on how to introduce pets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 It would appear that the person who took the kitten is not prepared to integrate it into her home. That takes work on her part and more than a day to do. Go pick up the kitten. Find it a better home. Just be sure to ask lots of questions of your potential adoptive parents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 I think she's ridiculous but I would take the kitten back and try again because otherwise I'd be afraid she would dump it at the pound or something. I also wouldn't want to worry about the dog hurting it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 Wow, I keep my animals apart for weeks, only allowing interaction with one of them partitioned off... (like in a crate) I kept my dog on a leash for a month before I let him off around my cat. Really, a kitty is so small, you can't just let them be around each other right away. :( I would take it back :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 You have to take the kitten back because the person you gave it to is a bit stupid on this issue and you have no idea what she will do with the kitten. And well, now you know. :glare: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiana Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 I'd think that it's awesome that I found out that wasn't a good home for the kitty before it's too late :P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 I'm kind of surprised at how many people don't remember how frustrating it can be to introduce a new pet to your household. She may not know that it makes life much easier if you keep pets separated and introduce them gradually. I wouldn't just chalk it up to her being a "bad pet owner". I'm sure she was frazzled from a night of everyone freaking out on each other when you talked to her this morning. It's so, so hard to find homes for kittens at this time of year. If you could walk her through the appropriate steps to successful pet introduction, things may work out just fine and you'll have one less kitten to find a home for. I've had to do this for more than one person and the results were great. They ended up with a forever pet and I didn't need to seek out another home. It doesn't always work, but a lot of times it does. Try talking to her later today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leeannpal Posted August 21, 2011 Author Share Posted August 21, 2011 Dh and dd are on the way to pick up the kitten. In perspective, it really isn't that important. So now we have two more kittens two give away. I'm sure it is for the best. And, she is a great co-worker. that's what is important:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tohru Posted August 21, 2011 Share Posted August 21, 2011 (edited) We had the same cat pregnant problem and actually found out that by certain state laws it is illegal to separate a mother and it's kitten or puppy before 8 weeks old. Personally, I'd gratefully pick up the kitten to find a better, more tolerant home and then check your state law... Edited August 21, 2011 by jadedone80 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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