Tammy Posted December 8, 2009 Share Posted December 8, 2009 Someone sent me a friend request......I confirmed.....but they are not showing up in my friend list....but I am showing up in theirs..... Why are they not showing up in my friend list? They sent me the friend request first. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlefurfamily Posted December 8, 2009 Share Posted December 8, 2009 I don't think they can hide themselves from you, but maybe you accidently hid them. Go down to the very bottom of your News Feed ~ click there where it says Edit Options ~ there you can see who you have hidden. I still think they should be on your Friends List though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammy Posted December 8, 2009 Author Share Posted December 8, 2009 and I didn't hide them. This is really odd...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlefurfamily Posted December 8, 2009 Share Posted December 8, 2009 Is it someone from that past that may have "friended" you to check out what was going on in your life and then "unfriended" you? hmmm... no you said You are on their friend list? hmmmm.... maybe try to "refriend" and see what it says? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oak Knoll Mom Posted December 8, 2009 Share Posted December 8, 2009 Did you become fb friends recently? Maybe just give facebook a little while to catch up. Other than that, I don't know. There's a pretty active facebook help group (Settings-->Help) that may be able to give you some guidance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammy Posted December 8, 2009 Author Share Posted December 8, 2009 I already tried that, LOL! They also sent me a facebook message.....and I can only access them through there....I befriended them last night so I can't imagine it is taking this long to update....Oh well....another mystery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oak Knoll Mom Posted December 8, 2009 Share Posted December 8, 2009 I already tried that, LOL! They also sent me a facebook message.....and I can only access them through there....I befriended them last night so I can't imagine it is taking this long to update....Oh well....another mystery. Are you sure you're actually fb friends? If someone sends you a message you can access their page for 30 days even if you're not friends. Maybe one of you accidentally (or purposefully) defriended the other? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammy Posted December 8, 2009 Author Share Posted December 8, 2009 I am listed as their friend..... I wonder if they hid themselves...because when I do a search they do not show up. And yes, I did confirm them as a friend....since they befriended me first. And it did say it was confirmed..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milovany Posted December 8, 2009 Share Posted December 8, 2009 Is there any kind of weird dynamic in your relationship? Because the only thing I can think of is that they friended you then blocked you -- so they can see you but you can't see them. (If that's even possible; it seems like if you block someone that would automatically unfriend them). If there's no such weird dynamic, then I'm at a loss! No one can control which of your friends (once accepted) that you can and can't see, as far as I know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted December 8, 2009 Share Posted December 8, 2009 Some people don't "publish" what they post on other people's pages. You can choose not to publish links or whatever. They may also have their privacy setting set higher than you do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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