We have 2 parakeets. Ours are fairly boring, so I'm a tad jealous of the pp who has fun parakeets ;). One of them is absolutely petrified of being held, the other will let my youngest hold him for brief periods, but that's about it. They don't really do much, honestly. I had a parakeet when I was a kid, and it did like to be held, but I think the ones we have now are pretty scared of my kids. Personally, I would go with a cockatiel for a good "starter" bird, since they are generally a bit more social with humans.