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  1. For me, the magic age is 30. I really don't want to have any more biological children at this point (I'm 25 with 4 kids), but I'm open to adopting ages 2 and up.

     

    I want to be done by the time I'm 30 (no throwing stones at the young mom over here! LOL!!!!) - I'd really like to have a career as either a midwife or just a doula or midwife's assistant.... or maybe a lactation consultant, beginning when my youngest is in the teen years...

     

    Hmm. Are you sure you're not me?

  2. No, actually it wasn't. How many women in the history of the world have had 19 living children? Fifty? A hundred? Impossible to know, but anything above eight or ten living children would have been extremely rare except for a brief, brief period between the advent of modern medicine and the falling birth rates of the last twenty or thirty years? 19? Unheard of.

     

    Years ago, there was a picture in Mothering magazine of a lady and her 21 children.

  3. 2) and I can't get over nursing for only a couple months because getting pregnant again is more important than the baby who could benefit from nursing another 6-18months. The "old" baby get "substandard" (standard is breastmilk so anything under is below standard even if it's "good enough") so they can fulfill whatever this is? Why not give each baby what they should have and however many kids you have, you do?

     

    She covers this in her book. She nurses for at least six months and then as long after that as she can bring herself to do it. Nursing is very painful for her. She has inverted nipples that no lactation consultant has been able to help her with and nursing for her means cracked and bleeding nipples and hurting. But she does it anyway.

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