Well, I've been lurking for a while and figured I might as well post since I think I'll be on here a lot coming up:001_smile:. Sorry in advance...this might be long.
My oldest ds is 6, in first grade. Up until about 2 1/2 months ago, I thought everything was basically on track. He's had some fine motor trouble, but has really improved using HWT. He has struggled with reading, but has always been making progress, so I was sort of into the "late bloomer" theory...until I read a description of dyslexia online and realized he had virtually every symptom. There is a small private school for dyslexics in our area and so I took him there to be tested. She pretty much immediately agreed that he was "significantly dyslexic" and he now gets tutoring at this school 4 days a week for 45 minutes. He has shown great improvement which is awesome.
Well, after our two rounds of testing with her, she then said "I really think you need to go to a psychologist for more intensive testing. I think there is a lot more going on here". She thinks he has aspergers. As I'm sure many of you understand, I was fairly crushed. I used to know someone who had severe aspergers who, quite frankly, was just so hard to be around and that unfortunately is my mental image of aspergers. We are beginning testing now, but I would just love to get your wise opinions.
Here are his symptoms:
-high IQ (around 135) with significant dyslexia
-very creative, imaginative, loves to play pretend
-very advanced vocabulary...he's like an old man in a 6 year old body
-he struggles with eye contact. He does pretty well with family and close friends and kids, but poorly with adults he doesn't know or if he is giving a lot of information
-he is very clumsy in athletics. He actually was quick learning to ride a bike/scooter, but soccer, catching, throwing, etc... are a mess
-he loves being around people and plays well with kids his age...we've never had any problems with other kids and him although he does sometimes seem different to me than them due to his large vocabularly/speech trouble/clumsiness.
-he is "quirky". He makes jokes that we don't always get (I don't know if anyone would get them). He doesn't laugh at inappropriate things, but sometimes when he laughs at something funny he laughs strangely, almost a fake laugh.
-he has articulation trouble. He has been in speech in the past. He has improved a lot and no longer qualifies through the public school system, but can still be hard to understand if you don't know him at all.
-He is never hyperactive, UNLESS we have new adults over at the house. Then he can get a little crazy, almost like he's trying to show off to them. It's not terrible, but it's not his usual behavior and he struggles to control it.
-He is very loving and affectionate, loves to hug and snuggle and is definitely our most compliant child.
So I'm doing this dyslexia tutoring, getting more testing done, looking into more speech therapy, and worried about aspergers.
I've also set an appointment with a vision therapy doctor, but the original dyslexia teacher and the psychologist have said they don't think it will help so I'm thinking I might cancel that.
Sorry for the book...if you stayed with it...any thoughts??? Could this be aspergers? How do they go about diagnosing correctly?