Hi, this is my first post here, so I will start by introducing my family. We are currently a military family of 4 - dd4, dd2, wifey, and myself all living in Hawaii.
We are trying to decide what to do with dd4 next fall. My wife was homeschooled her entire life, but isn't sure that she is up to the task of teaching dd4 (will be 5 then) with a toddler around (and possibly a newborn at the time). She doesn't feel confident in her ability to teach dd, and give the other one the attention she needs.
The school dd would go to is one of the better ones around, and there is also a Public Charter School that we are thinking about trying to get her into.
My biggest thing is that I want someone teaching my daughter who is passionate about teaching. Whether that is Mom, or a teacher at a PS doesn't really matter to me at her age. If she does end up going to PS, I intend to supplement that at home.
My wife always thought she would HS, and her mother assumes she will. Every time my wife brings up the possibility of letting dd go to a PS, she is very clearly disapproving. My wife and her mom have always been close, and now we have moved thousands of miles away (which was hard on them both). My wife is afraid of alienating her mother if she chooses to have dd go to PS.
We are leaning about 65-70% towards sending her to one of the PS, especially if she gets into the charter school.
Any suggestions on what to do here? If we do decide she won't be exclusively hs, any ideas on how to tell my MIL?