mrbmom77 Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 I mostly lurk but I had to post a huge "Thank you!" to everyone here who has ever recommended the book by Cloud & Townsend. Many threads here over the last several years have helped me see how truly screwed up my childhood was and how dysfunctional my family still is. I finally read the book last night and it confirmed some things and clarified some. I cut off contact with my mother several months ago and have really struggled with some telling me that it is unforgiving and unChristian. It was a relief to read the section on the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. If anyone is interested, the e-book is on sale right now for $2.99. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 I'm so glad that you have benefited. :grouphug: because it isn't easy setting boundaries. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momacacia Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 Yes. Wonderful book! I like "Necessary Endings" even better. By Cloud I think, but same principles applied to business--which can then be applied to family. Boundaries itself has too many stories in it for me. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 It's one of the few books that I keep and often refer to, share, and highly recommend. (I often feel like a broken record, but it is a very helpful book... :smash: ) Some dear board memeber here recommended it years ago. My mil was my reason for seeking a copy, and it was worth every dollar. Lots of libraries have a copy and it's my first recommendation to anyone dealing with a difficult person...especially a difficult family member. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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