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How do I stay grateful when I feel so envious?


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When we look at what someone else has or where they live, we see it through the no-stress eyes. We don't live there, so we don't see all the things that need to be done or haven't been done. We look at it as "done" and stress-free! But we don't look through the same eyes at our own place or things. Have you ever left for a few weeks, for vacation and come back and find out it's not so bad?

 

I have. But then it still doesn't help that I want that cute white picket fence and all the flowers on some rolling green acres, with shady trees and a babbling brook, in a farmhouse that needs no work, that has a lot of character....ACK......back to earth.

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:grouphug: Chris :grouphug:

 

When I feel like that, I like to sit down and take stock. Me, I make lists. What are the things in my life I am happy about? What are the things I don't like? Can I change them? Is there some way that good can come out of them? Or, do I just need to chalk them up to "God is doing something, and he must have a plan, but for right now I can't see it."

 

I don't see any point in making yourself feel a false gratitude for things you are not happy about.

 

PM me if you want-- you might recall we PM'd once when you were deciding what to do about that class you were thinking of taking.

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