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  1. I understand where you are coming from but speaking from NZ I think it is wonderful that people in the US can often study at night while working.  Here the only way to do any tertiary education and work is to work at night and most night work is low wage stuff.

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  2. On 6/27/2022 at 8:45 AM, Janeway said:

    Do you have kids now?

    Your goals and plans are not actually realistic. A six-year-old is not typically fluent in reading, or ready for Saxon 54. 
    While it is true that a child is more likely to retain what they’re really interested in, it is not true that being completely hands off is going to make your child suddenly interested in math or reading or anything else. Also, I am not sure of your point to homeschooling and expecting your children to be really advanced and everything, if you want to stay totally hands off.

    Yes.  My kids were reasonably advanced readers.  At 6 they could read The Beginners Bible, Magic Treehouse etc.  They couldn't read, understand and follow the instructions in a maths book.  One of them was pretty good at maths but you couldn't have given him a Saxon 54 maths book and told him to work his way through it.

  3. We are enrolled for CLRC MSLatin1.  It was a toss up between that and Latin 1but I went with the one that didn't require 6 AM classes.

    We didn't like FFL.  We did like Cambridge Latin but we need structure and although we did self paced MS1 last year I wasn't impressed with the provider.

  4. On 6/17/2022 at 5:04 PM, Jean in Newcastle said:

    The boy is 12. But the point is to stop what is a trajectory that has no good outcome. A child with no appropriate interventions in the home is not going to suddenly realize that he’s on the wrong path. He’s not going to suddenly get “tools “ to use himself. Right now his tools are the tools of assault. And as he grows stronger he’s going to be able to wield those tools with more force. So again my question to the OP is what is her line in the sand. When her own son or another neighbor boy ends up in the ER?  

    Yes.  At 12 it may be possible for someone to intervene.  In a few years it probably won't be. And if he does harm someone you will be always wondering whether you could have prevented it.

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  5. On 6/23/2022 at 10:27 AM, teachermom2834 said:

    Right. I don’t know your situation. I’m most familiar with baseball and what would happen there is that a coach would then put the kid in when there was a situation for the kid to fail and then say “see…he had his chance.” Saw that over and over from different coaches. Or the coach would just never put the kid in to just show the parent he wouldn’t cave to pressure. But I never saw a coach say “oh yeah…you make a good point. Let me give that some thought.”  Saw the same things in basketball and football. Not sure how that translates to swimming and it always seems like there should be more justice in sports where times should be objective. I can see how the relay situation is muddy though. 

    That sounds like classroom teachers.  They want harder maths.  Oh see they failed that (giving them maths about 7 years advanced rather than 2)

  6. I have been made redundant once when the contract we were all working on was terminated by my company (it had been costed wrong and they were losing enough money that breaking the contract was worthwhile to them)   We got two weeks notice but the boss did what he could to help people find jobs during that time.  Another job I was at they closed a division and anyone not redeployed was given a decent severance based on time.  A few people got 6 months pay.

    Would any of the customers drop the firm if they found out?

  7. 17 hours ago, Soror said:

    For those that never struggled with this huzzah for you--- I'm looking for those that have struggled and found a way to overcome it.

    I have an uncanny ability to accidentally offend people. I think I'm being friendly and nice and end up with people disliking me/hating me. I always say it is my special skill. I will not ever be one of those people that everyone loves.  I've tried just keeping my mouth shut. Surely if I don't hardly talk I can't offend/bother people, yet I do. I was hoping to become more at home with myself in my 40s but I'm still waiting.

    It has been a season of trying times, disappointments, and failures. I should be like f' it at this point but it still hurts and stings. And I replay in my head what did I possibly say or do to this person that has bothered them. 

    Honestly people are generally offended because if something in them not something in you.  They will probably be just as offended if you keep your mouth shut.

    Eta.  Unless of course you are trying to be offensive which you aren't.

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  8. They don't? Where I am you are expected to be in the room until the kids go to high school.  I am not sure it is required but it was always assumed.  Now my oldest is at high school I wait in the waiting room.  When I was a kid though, the schools had dental clinics and your parents never knew until afterwards.  A lot of schools in NZ still do but my city changed to have centralized child oral health clinics.  When the kids reach high school age they switch to one of the real dentists who are part of the scheme 

  9. We have used them a lot.  We are taking a break this year to consolidate skills.  My son has the writing issues which seem common to kids with ASD so we are repeating with a different resource to try and increase independence.  We will likely go back and pick up English 3 after that.

     

    EtA.  For the price the course has very good feedback and support.  Most classes of similar cost do not include feedback at all.

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  10. My 15 year has only come home again.  He is nearly halfway through the equivalent of 10th grade and has only just turned 15 so will complete high school at 17.  He is not the sort of kid who I can imagine leaving home at 17.  He will have to though as we have no university and he wants to do a selective course.  I am thinking of having him do his last year over 2 years with work experience and maybe a couple of on line university courses.

  11. On 6/8/2022 at 11:45 AM, Harriet Vane said:

    Yes, a fence is the obvious answer. But we do not want a fence. The neighborhood has large lots with spread-out houses and lots of forested areas. We love our view. We don't want a fence.

    The other thing is the expense. The whole yard is 1.25 acres with a curvy edge. We have already this year had to spend a ton of money on major and unexpected plumbing issues, and that's on top of the basement rehab project we did already before Easter and house trim painting. We do not want to spend any more on big home improvement projects just because this horrible neighbor is like this.

    How about a single strand electric fence like you put around gardens to keep Weka and possums out?

    Or wire netting or net to protect the plants - that should stuff up his weed eater.

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  12. My oldest was at school but they let him spend some of the time on AOPS PA.  My youngest is using Derek Owen's.  He finds the videos a bit painful at times but it seems to be working.  My oldest has just come home at 15 and I am trying to decide whether to stick with the NZ curriculum or try and do a quick run through algebra 1 and 2 then geometry.  (I know that isn't the usual sequence but it could take 6 months plus to source the geometry text.

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  13. 8 hours ago, catz said:

    We never requested a free trial lesson in all the years we've been doing lessons.  The only time we ever got one was when my kid had sample lessons at colleges (and then we still offered and did pay for some).   I consider it nice when a teacher just lets you PAY for a trial lesson instead of requiring you to buy of block or a semester of lessons. 

    Do you have a web page?  I might package up an "introductory consultation, 45 minutes for X dollars" or something on a page with a description so you just have somewhere to point these people when they make these silly requests.  

    I would be worried if I couldn't have a trial lesson but for musin or tutoring I would expect to pay.  For dance or martial arts it is common to get the first lesson free though for activities with term fees it is really only free if you do your trial the previous term.

  14. 10 hours ago, Arcadia said:

    Here a free trial lesson is common but it is a very short lesson, more like 15 to 20mins, just to see if teacher and student can get along. If the teacher drives over for the trial lesson, a token amount for gasoline is paid. 

    We did a trial lesson a few months ago.  We paid the normal rate for a standard 30 minute lesson.

  15. Here they always get you to tell your address and check it against the label before they hand it over.  I always thought it was to prevent me stealing someone else's pills - but maybe not.  Definitely something they should take very seriously though.  Mistakes can kill.

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  16. On 5/11/2022 at 9:32 AM, Katy said:

    I recognize that you don’t live in the US and may not know many older women who had to get their husbands permission to go on the pill, but it was COMMON until Roe. So common idk if there are existing laws on the books that will go back into effect but I’d have trouble believing there aren’t. There are still OBGYNs in this country who won’t perform a tubal ligation without speaking to the woman’s husband. 

    She was raised in the US and I think still has US citizenship and lots of family in the US.  It is not the same as me making the comments who was born in NZ.  I imagine her mother was one of those woman.  And even in NZ anyone my mother's age or over (70"s) had to prove marriage to get the pill so she must know people here who did.

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