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    Should obese kids be taken away from their parents?

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    As a foster parent, I certainly don't want to be 'in charge' of getting these kids' weight under control! Imagine the microscope that would put foster families under (more than we already are)! If they go to school during the day, they can get their hands on food. No foster family can control that. In fact, they'd probably be depressed from being removed from their families and eat MORE when out of the foster home. JMO.

    For wives who do not believe in submitting...

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    So, the way I'd approach this is compromise. Your ds is only a few years from adulthood, so I don't think trying to cut him off from his gf will be productive, and will only cast you as the villain trying to stop True Love . Yes, that's dramatic, but that's how teens see things.

     

    If this were me, and my dh was okay with it, I'd say, alright, I'll permit it with conditions. Then, I'd proceed to establish a set of rules determining when he can see her, under what conditions, and so forth.

     

    If your ds or your dh protest, you take dh to the side and remind him you are already compromising by permitting the dating. Now, you are simply taking measures to try to protect your ds and his gf from any negative issues that may arise from the dating. Have your reasons prepared, and be firm, but reasonable when explaining.

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    Mother says she doesn't like her child

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    What surprised me is that she didn't ask a doctor about it sooner. I guess all generally seemed fine, but it's sad they couldn't have dealt with this sooner.

     

    My son also has a severe growth hormone defect. He's on daily shots, only his defect caused severe blood sugar drops and grand mal seizures. But they did say the defect causes weak muscles, and therefore, causing milestones to pass on by. (He didn't walk until he was 3.5, but we kind of thought it was a DS thing.) His defect was hard to ignore because of the symptoms...however, it did take them 8 months to find out the cause of the blood sugar issues and seizures.

    Mother says she doesn't like her child

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    I don't know. It's television. The story might not truly be THAT interesting and so they are emphasizing something that isn't as serious as it sounds. So she doesn't always like her kid or what her kid does. Seriously, that is rare? I doubt it.

     

    I met a woman with a child who is severely autistic. She cannot communicate with her child. Her child's bedroom is an empty room with a mattress and a lock on the door because he has hurt himself climbing furniture and throwing stuff and taking off in the middle of the night. They cannot go anywhere as a family nor live anything that resembles a normal life. I am pretty sure she has a lot of moments of not liking her child. I think it's human to not like something when it is that oppressive. This doesn't mean these women don't love their children.

     

    I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm also not saying that I would find it horrible in every situation. However, in *this* situation, based on what this mom said, or at least the part that was aired, it's horrible. JMO, I know all won't and don't agree.

    Mother says she doesn't like her child

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    :iagree:

     

    Motherhood has it's dark moments; it's not all a Mr. Clean commercial. I wish there was more space to talk about them without people rushing to tell you how horrified they are what what you should have felt/done.

     

    In my opinion, having 'bad Mommy moments' is totally different than what is happening in this story. Yes, I am horrified at the way she has treated her daughter, for the REASONS she treated her daughter this way. Hey, I'll be the first to admit that seeing my son's (who has Down syndrome) peers pass him up hurt. It still hurts to see him try to hard and not be able to do something. I'm sure it will hurt forever, to a degree. Does that mean I chose not to like him-- Because he didn't reach his milestones? He can't speak to me and tell me who he played with on the playground. But for pete's sake, I still like him. I love him like crazy! He's just a fun guy! I still hold to my initial thought that this mom is just selfish and embarrassed and I feel badly for her daughter. She said "I don't think it's too much to expect your child to reach the milestones" My response is "Well, sorry darlin' sometimes, yes it is...."

    Mother says she doesn't like her child

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    You know, sometimes is IS too much to expect your child to reach the developmental milestones....Not everyone is 'just like the books'. You don't think her 7 year old noticed that her mom loved her sister more than her? As a mother of a child with special needs, this story maddened me AND broke my heart all at the same time. This mom is selfish. Plain and simple....SELFISH! Sometimes having a child, especially one who is 'different' means you lay down yourself, your dreams, your expectations for your CHILD. Anyway, the more I type, the madder I am getting...so I'll shut up.:glare:

    hsing a child w/Down syndrome

    in The Learning Challenges Board

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    Oh great, Emily! I can't wait to hear what your plans are for your little guy for next school year!

     

    Well, to be honest, I have no plans! ACK! I am hoping to nail down some curriculum over the summer. We will be starting Logan in Kindergarten curriculum this year (he turned 6 in April). He knows his letters and their sounds and can identify numbers mostly through 20. He does not do well holding a pencil yet. What are you thinking? Maybe we can pick each others brains and come up with something!

    Open mouth. Insert foot.

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    I half agree with you. :001_smile: My dh coaches too. It is a huge commitment and sometimes it is extremely frustrating. Especially when you have kids on your team that absolutely do not care about learning the game. Yeah, that coach probably was a jerk. I wonder if he is like that all the time or the frustration of the game finally got to him. Sounds like his team was losing pretty badly. Sometimes coaches have bad days. We are all human.

     

    To the OP, is this an organized group like Little League? LL has a board. If your friend thinks this coach is this way most of the time, I'd make sure the board or other "higher ups" knew about it so he isn't allowed to coach again next year. We are dealing with that this year. One of our major coaches will definitely not be allowed back to coach. (And I wouldn't confront the other coach on my own either!)

     

    Well, according to my friend, he was acting this way the game they won too. How do you know if it's a "Little League" team or not? This is just a small town rec team. Hmmmm. I will just be thankful we have a great coach.

    Open mouth. Insert foot.

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    I don't get why people don't SAY something to the BELITTLER and HUMILIATOR?

     

    You heard him. Your friend heard him.

     

    Why doesn't anyone tell him to stop?

     

    Very good point. For me, I don't feel comfortable confronting a man, especially since it wasn't my child who he was belittling. If my child were on the team, I'd sick my husband on him :001_smile:

     

    This is a VERY small town league. We chose it because it was less competitive than our local team. There are only 4 practices and games. I would be embarrassed if I heard someone say that about my DH. I'd probably use it as a way to let me him know it wasn't just be who thought he was being a jerk! :tongue_smilie:

    Open mouth. Insert foot.

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    However, in this case, I'm glad I did! We were at my oldest sons baseball game last night. My friend has a child on the other team, so we were sitting next to each other. After observing the other coach belittle and humiliate the kids on the other team, I said to my friend "Wow, your coach is a jerk. I would be really upset if we'd ended up on his team." (as a side note, we did try to get Zach on that team because his friend was on it. It didn't work out...THANKFULLY!) Anyway, the lady beside my friend glanced over when I said that, but she didn't say anything. After the game, I discovered it was his WIFE! :001_huh: Ooops. My DH is an assistant coach for my sons team and he even mentioned after the game how glad he was Zach didn't end up on that team and what a jerk he was being. I told my DH not to worry, his wife overheard me calling him a jerk. Honestly, while I probably wouldn't have said it if I knew it was his wife, I'm glad she heard. Maybe the message will get passed on to him. :tongue_smilie: Oh, for the record, my friend agreed with me. :)

     

    As another side note, one reason I LOVE our coach is because last night at the end of the game, we were ahead and were going to win. (They play 1.5 hours no matter the score) Most runs for both teams were scored by stolen bases (both catchers have issues catching) and our coach wouldn't let our team steal home anymore in the last inning. After the game he told the boys that one of the most important lessons in sports is good sportsmanship. He told them the reason he wouldn't let them steal home anymore was because it wasn't good sportsmanship to run up the score when you were going to win. He would have let them run if we'd gotten a hit, but wouldn't let them steal home to add more points. I think that is really cool.

    Not feeling baby move yet :(

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    My placenta was in the 'front' of my belly with my last one. They had trouble hearing his heartbeat and there was almost no felt kicks. He rolled a lot (later than 20 weeks), but the placenta absorbed almost all the kicks, especially early. :grouphug: If I were you, though, I would go to the ER, just for peace of mind. It doesn't do anyone good to be stressed!!!! :grouphug::grouphug:

    Today is the day!

    in General Education Discussion Board

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    After months of training and planning, we are having our walkthrough today to get our temp foster license. We will get that in a few weeks, then State will come out and approve us for our permanent license. Theoretically, we could start taking foster placements in a few weeks (or whenever our license comes in the mail. They said 4 days to 3 weeks....it'll be longer.) Please pray this walkthrough goes smoothly! :cheers2:

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