My dd has tourette's. You should talk to your Dr. Even though there is not much they can do(meds. if its really bad) and there is no test to confirm it, after a year of certain behavior, they will confirm, yes it is tourette's, at which point you can talk to your child, and say it's ok, you can help your child understand what's happening, and why, and what does it all mean. My husband has it also, so we know in our hearts that this isn't something that will just go away. A lot of kids will develop tics, and they eventually disappear. Tourette's for my dd seems to switch from muscle to verbal tics, the tics are always changing. So when it's really bad or painful its good to know that they will probably ease up, and turn into something more manageable. Today I had to end school early for her(and sis) because she was hurting to much. I put on a book on cd, and let them do felting, after two hours she ate a great dinner, took a bath, got cozy, and went to sleep. It's all I can do for her, make her feel calm, and peaceful. She will be officially diagnosed in Dec. by her Dr. I haven't talked to her about tourettes since our 1st visit to the Dr. He was very open about what the likely diagnoses was, but i don't think she absorbed it. I don't know if i should wait for Dec. to lay it all out for her. i had been waiting thinking would if it went away, why would i put that in her mind.....but now.... it's obvious that it's tourette's. Sometimes it's so hard to watch her go. Not to mention I question myself all the time on how hard I should be on her, and not stressing her out with school work. It's a dance I guess. Thank God for homeschooling! I did find a great dvd "I Have Tourette's but Tourette's Doesn't Have Me"
ugh what a bummer
thanks for letting me ramble,best of luck to your family
and please excuse my terrible writing skills(double ugh)