Karen, I think my friend will love you for this comment :) we have similar experience - going nuts after first (high needs) baby, using work as escape from toddler childcare...
I've naturally grumpy personality - I'm no Sally Clarkson at all, so I'll be less able to sugar coat things but being close to my children and doing random things with him - looking forward most. We are out and about most of day anyway with my newborn baby and I love it.