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  1. I go to convention to:

     

    meet other WTMer's, of course.

     

    get my annual pep talk.

     

    see what's new.

     

    look at, handle, peruse books.

     

    purchase curriculum and not pay shipping and *maybe* get a discount.

     

    have fun.

     

    have a weekend without my family. (Sounds terrible, but I enjoy a few days away without them.)

     

    spend time with my bf, who always goes with me.

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    The rules listed above are great ones, but could he obey them and continue making choices you don't approve of?

     

    Absolutely.

     

    I'm in that same struggle with my ds, who will be 20 at the end of the month. He lives in my home (while attending school) and I think he still needs to respect the house rules. He seems to think he can just do anything he pleases. And he's made some life choices that are a slap in the face to me. It is hard, very hard.

     

    I thought parenting was hard when the kids were little. That was nothing compared to parenting on this end!

  3. My oldest dd would hs the youngest (only one still hsing). If she's not able, my bf would school ds.

     

    Our church family buried a 23-yr-old mother of a 2-mo-old baby today. She died very unexpectedly last Tuesday night. (Her dh woke up to find her gasping for air...20 min later she was gone. Cause is still undetermined.) I'm acutely aware today that none of us have any guarantees about tomorrow.

  4. I lost my mom 19 months ago...I think of her every day and miss her so much it hurts.

     

    When I was 28 and pregnant, dh and I moved from IN to FL. We bought a house when I was 8 months along and HUGE. When we took possession, it was really dirty, and I called Mom in a panic, sobbing. My parents got in a car that same evening and pulled up at our home two days later. Mom spent the next two weeks cleaning and painting; then she came back six weeks later just in time for the baby and helped me for 6 weeks. I did nothing but baby for all that time. It was a wonderful gift!

  5. I just read SWB's blog...wow, the folks in charge of the Williamsburg library forgot to engage their brains--and they obviously do not *know* you, Susan. Anyone who shows up regularly at the library with laundry baskets to carry home books should be welcomed with open arms and a parade! Short-sighted, they are very short-sighted.

     

    I wish I lived in the area. I'd be there on the 31st.

  6. Not really. I keep track of what we paid for the books, look at what the text is selling for, and decide what I want to ask for it. If it doesn't sell reasonably soon, then I might go in and edit the price.

     

    I think we certainly do better than if we sold them back at the bookstore.

     

    ETA: Of course, the kids generally don't buy them at the bookstore either!

  7. I understand her reasons, and I think you need to make efforts to fulfill her people needs in some other ways. There is no way I would send my child to ps so he/she could socialize--that's one of the reasons we homeschool! (And...what about academics? Would ps be the better academic choice? That *is* the purpose of school, after all.)

  8. We did an angel from the tree at the YMCA and had a blast getting gifts for a 3-yr-old boy (who just wanted Batman stuff).

     

    Then I organized fundraising and purchasing for 4 children from church who would not have otherwise had a Christmas. It was truly awesome to abundantly bless these families. I was so pleased to hear Sunday that all the clothes fit perfectly and the toys were perfect...the kids were estatic. I was blessed so much in the giving. I can't wait till next year when we can do it again!

  9. I just want to sit down and cry. It's a long story revolving around ds and his girlfriend's family. Our families have two completely different belief systems and thoughts about parenting. (We are conservative; they are quite liberal.) Those differences reared their ugly little heads again last night.

     

    The joy of Christmas was literally sucked out of me. No matter how we respond, our next days are going to be strained and unhappy. Note to parents of teens...respect the way others raise their kids.

  10. I spent the day shopping for 4 kids who would not have had Christmas otherwise. A bunch of people from church contributed to the fund, and I was able to purchase lots of fun toys, needed clothing and food for the home. It was sooooo much fun to wade through the toy aisles and choose things. I also have fun stuff for stockings. I'm just really happy to be able to bless these little ones (who are 6, 4, 17 mos and 6 mos)!

     

    Thursday, a friend and I are going to deliver everything. I can't wait!

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