I don't know that I have any advice, but I can certainly provide understanding and sympathy. We moved across the country just before our oldest was starting high school. That ultimately turned out to be a great move. Both my kids settled into a wonderful, active homeschool teen group where they made many friends and had numerous activities. Four and a half years later, a year ago, we moved half way across the country right after our oldest (son) graduated and our youngest's (daughter) sophomore year. The move was much harder on her. While her brother would have been leaving and settling into college life anyway, she was missing her friends and having a difficult time finding a place to fit-in in our new area. What she ended up doing was working hard this past year and summer in order to graduate early and will be going full time to a local CC this fall. Since she turns 18 in September, it was a viable option for her and perhaps the best option. She was ready to move on.