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  1. Eliminate stuff. 

     

    Really, the only way to keep it clean is if there isn't much to clean up.  Ours each have a junk drawer where they can put their drawings or whatever stash they want.  When it gets full, they dump and clean it. 

     

    As for everything else, well, there isn't much of anything else.  For the younger ones, they have a trunk for dress up clothes - takes less than a minute to pick up everything and toss it into the trunk.  The younger ones have a plastic 3-drawer thing that has 3 kinds of toys.  Whatever doesn't fit, doesn't stay in the room.  The older ones are responsible for keeping their own room clean.  If they can't keep it orderly, it doesn't stay in the room.  If there isn't a place anywhere else in the house, it doesn't stay in the house.

     

    Simplicity Parenting changed my view on childhood and stuff.

  2. My budget is too tight to take a loss. Anything I take the time to sell I need to sell, otherwise I give away. So with that in mind, I would email something like "sorry did not realize how much shipping/paypal fees would cost me so I am going to have to cancel the sale as I can not afford to lose money on a sale." or whatever the reason is or just a "Sorry, I did the math and realized I would lose money selling this at $XX and I can't take a loss on a sale right now".

     

    Thank you, this wording helps. 

  3. I am selling something, (not here), and the buyer offered a lot less than I was asking, so I countered half way, and she agreed.  I was caught up in the moment and now I realize what a terrible, terrible mistake it was to lower the price.  I would be losing way too much.  At this point, it's like I'd be paying her to take it.

     

    What would you do - would you apologize and cancel the sale or ship and accept the loss?

     

     

  4. Generally, we keep a bowl full of those little mandarin oranges that are easy to peel accessible on the counter or table, also a small bowl of nuts and another of pretzels.  This lets anyone with hunger pangs have something readily available without having to ask between meals (or between snacks).

     

    Leaving candy out is a great idea too!

     

    My parents keep a huge open container of shelled nuts with a cracker in their living room.

  5. Where does the other person live?

     

    The temp in my house is currently 76, but I have to run the AC to keep it there. In a colder climate? I keep it around 72. My mom keeps her house at 62 in the winter, brrrr!

     

    Mountains, snow outside. 

     

    The general mentality in the area is that since it's cold outside, indoor 60's is fine.  However we keep our house pretty toasty because we have a small child that refuses to wear all their required garments.

  6. There is a different ratio of sugar:cornstartch or other filler that changes the taste.  I used to make this simple frosting recipe all the time, but haven't for years.  This was the first time my frosting turned out icky, but it seems like for the past year or so everything we've used powdered sugar on has had that same not-good taste and I keep throwing out the bag and trying a new one.

     

     

     

  7. We watch anime and there are some characters that have that quiet child voice, or speed talk.  Probably not helpful, just saying. :)

     

    For school work - maybe try intensive block scheduling or main lesson planning?  It seems to work better for some teens with intense interests because they simply can not handle doing too many subjects every day, it is overwhelming.

  8. I'm glad I spent time with my kids: reading to them, talking with them, including then in what I was doing, and taking them places.

     

    I'm glad I spent money on books, hands-on learning manipulatives (counters, balance, scale, base-10 blocks, play clock, art supplies, etc), and memberships to things like the zoo and our local children's museum.

     

    I wish I hadn't spent so much time and money on classes and activities when they were in the 4-6 year range, which is funny because we waited longer to start activities and get serious about them than anyone we know (in our suburban bubble). But if I had it to do over, we would wait until 7-8 for that sort of thing and just spend more time as a family instead.

     

    Us too!  Co-ops, classes, ballet, karate, etc.

     

    I wished I wouldn't have switched curricula so much and I would've spent less time online and more time outside in nature.

     

  9. Years ago, we used Sonlight Core 5 with my first and it was fine. I was thinking of switching from MFW (which is a little slow) to Core B (1) with my 1st grade student.

     

    After looking over the first few weeks, it seems that the books aren't quite age appropriate - they are just a tad too advanced.  For example, Homer Price is one of the Read-Alouds, but recommended for grades 3-5 on some websites and Hillyer's history is scheduled, but it's Calvert's primary text used in 4th grade.

     

    Is this typical for the early grades?  I'm trying to find something that has everything scheduled out for us because I don't have the time to do it myself, but I want age appropriate books.

     

    TIA

  10. That is not how HIPPA works, and I find it hard to believe that every. single. hospital and mental health clinic in town does not understand that.  Parents are minor representatives except in very particular situations, and hospitals generally have no problem confirming whether someone is at the hospital (they just will not detail condition, etc.). 

     

    That doesn't mean that I think you or even your friend is lying. Here are a few things that might have happened in concert: 

     

    *the school counselor was mistaken about their role in HIPPA

     

    *then, the daughter requested services and requested privacy 

     

    *or, the daugher was in bad enough condition that the hospital could not confirm her identity or whether she requested services and privacy

     

    People, even professionals, can and do make mistakes all of the time. I readily acknowledge that. However, for this scenario to occur as the parents understand it, multiple people at multiple locations would have to have no idea how HIPPA works. I lean more towards the daughter being an inaccurate reporter (as far as her general condition at the time, or what she said at first).

     

    Teens threatening to hurt or kill themselves is a serious thing. Hopefully, this girl either learned some coping mechanisms that she really needed while under hold, or learned a very hard lesson about melodrama. 

     

    What state are you in?

     

  11. Understandably, no one knows the situation or family involved, but when the comments start attacking the mother, my friend, especially while they are still dealing with it...I wanted to share the story because I didn't know it was legal for the school to commit a child and not be required to tell the parent. It is legal. Apparently the school had authorization to "seek emergency medical care" and that is what they are standing by.

     

    And she really did just want to get out of class, not kill herself.

  12. There are some homes I walk into and I think, wow, I love how they decorated, or it just feels so friendly, welcoming, inviting - there is a distinct "homey" feeling that I can't identify. 

     

    I clean, my house is fairly tidy most days, it's just the little things that I can't figure out.  When I was growing up, we lived in military housing with military furnishings and my mother was very minimalistic. As an adult, I really don't know how to decorate or create that "homey" atmosphere.

     

    I'd love to have some suggestions. Any hints or tips? 

     

     

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