sbgrace Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 If a child has ADHD would their hyperactivity/impulsive behavior possibly be more severe in certain situations than in others? My son seems to have more trouble outside the home than inside it--not with attention but with the hyper/impulsive behaviors. I'm not sure what might cause that or if it's typical. Should I just stay by his side everywhere? I'm feeling discouraged with his behavior in church activities particularly as it's important to me that he goes and he enjoys it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ondreeuh Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Yes, new situations can cause more extreme behavior. If he will be in a sport or class, plan on a transition period while you shadow your ds until he gets used to the new routine and rules. Mine always get spun up in groups and show worse behavior than at home. And yes, it does limit what we are able to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DisplayName Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Mayb sensory issues? Overstimulation? My ds sees, hears and smells everything. At home he'd be quite alright but even playing outside is too much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Murmer Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 My dd appears to have anxiety and that anxiety appears through hyperactive behavior. Anxiety is a common co-morbid with ADHD so that is another option. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotSoObvious Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Absolutely! My dd gets very overwhelmed with sensory input and it exacerbates her symptoms. Also, when you are out and about, a lot of times their food and drink intake is ls than stellar, which affects these kiddos in a big way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom22ns Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Yes, it is typical. There is so much to overwhelm an ADHD kid outside the home. They are accustomed to the various stimulants in the home, but when they go out, it is a whole new ballgame. Things that can help: Prepare him for what to expect Stay close to help head-off problem behaviors Help him find ways to deal with overstimulation... this could be swinging or bouncing before he goes or maybe finding a quiet space to refocus for a few minutes when things get overwhelming, the choices vary with the environment Negative behaviors definitely stem from overstimulation. He can't focus on any one thing, his frustration level grows and his reactions to each individual stimuli may become inappropriate. Your best bet is to work with him in an environment like church. Help him learn coping mechanisms within that environment, then give him space to practice them. You may find you have to explicitly teach him behaviors that seem to be obvious to those around him. Be calm and patient. The over reactions of those around him will just elevate his overstimulation. He will learn to deal with these situations. It will just take time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CritterMom Posted January 27, 2013 Share Posted January 27, 2013 :iagree: with everything that's been said so far. The one thing that you shouldn't do is feel the need to be there with him 100% of the time. It could be overstimulation, it also could be that he feels that he has different limits in different scenarios. I don't know who old your son is but research different options of how to control the environment that he's placed in. And support system is important too. You mentioned church activities, if the adult supervising knows that your son has particular problems, then maybe you can work together to help him? One thing I've learned too after dealing with an ADHD daughter for the past 10+ years is that sometimes, if you are in public, you have to put your patience hat on and ignore other people! The most important thing is that you are helping your child. If that means that others feel the need to look at you and judge you, who cares. Ignore them. Focus on your family and helping your son. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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