Thank you ladies so much for jumping in and talking this out with me! A little bit more background, she was tested several times in Elementary School ( public school days) and we went through speech therapy, right brain training, play therapy, ect...until we were all burned out! Her IQ testing showed that she would never read above a second grade level and we would have to take care of her through out her adult life (like give her baths). I ignored those results, pulled her out of public school after she failed K, 1st, and 2nd grade and we began homeschooling. I am happy to say that the test were wrong....she reads on a high school level, she has been showering on her own since she was 8, and she shaves her own legs! LOL
I had no idea that colleges have programs for kids with LD! I didn't even realize special accommodations were an option. She would need extra time on test, the ability to record lectures and re-listen to them, and one of my greatest fears is that they would fail every paper because of her dyslexia and the fact that putting her thoughts down on paper ( or expressing them out loud period) is VERY confusing. She doesn't think on a deeper/analytical level at all...everything is surface level, even her friendships and relationship with her family. I remember college including a lot of analytical thinking.
Despite her dyslexia and struggles with putting her personal thoughts on paper....she EXCELS at writing fiction! She can spend hours typing up a fantasy fiction novel. I like the idea of her taking one class per semester and slowly working towards a two year degree. She would definitely want to start out with a creative writing class. Her imagination is incredible and she finds it therapeutic to write fantasy fiction.
I have never pressured any of my kids to go to college. I have always told them I believe no matter what they should all start with two years at a community college to mature more before heading off to a larger university. For a long time her main goal in life was just to graduate high school, but she now hears friends talking about college and that has her feeling like she NEEDS to go.