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  1. I talked with my dh last night for just a few minutes before he fell asleep with our youngest boys. I told him how I felt blindsided, how I thought I had just agreed to consider it if we moved back to PA and he said, "oh. yeah. I guess we didn't really talk about whether we stayed here. sorry about that. but now that they're enrolled, it will be fine."

     

    He went on to say he just got caught up in the possibility of sending them all since we had been told (and it's true) that you can't just enroll the high schoolers as seniors (which we'll have one) or sophmores (which we have one)

    without them having an "official" transcript. In that respect, the school system bucked the rules because of my husband's friendship with the superinten. (which has since come back to bite us as some acquaintances of ours found out about it and called us to see how we got in since they had tried to get their daughter in as a senior and were told they couldn't).

     

    I got a few emails from people here reminding me of God's sovereignty and some verses that had originally encouraged me to trust dh on this when we first enrolled them that I had forgotten about.

     

    so THANK YOU for your encouragement, thoughts, prayers and hugs.

     

    now. what do you replace a small root of bitterness with (honestly) so it doesn't fester and grow? I really want my kids and dh to feel supported and loved, even though they know I'd rather have them home.

     

    ((Jodi))

     

    I am happy to hear you and dh talked. Just trust in God. Pray. Read your bible. If you are faithful to Him, He will bless you. Know that God has given you what is best for you. Rejoice in this! His plan will be revealed to you.

     

    "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." 1 Corinthians 13:4.

     

    We all make mistakes, even our dh. Give him the God's grace.

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    I like the suggestions to warn people in a more general manner. Maybe something along the lines of advising them to back off if he starts to get genuinely angry?

     

     

    That is a good idea Jean. If people already know his harsh ways, telling them about it escalating is probably a good idea.

     

    This sounds like a man who was not given much love as a child. The closer he gets to someone, the more anger he shows trying to sabotage the relationship before he gets too close. Its sad :crying:. It makes me want to hug my family.

  3. Is it still considered safe to freeze milk in ice cube trays after pumping?

     

    It's been a while since I've had to think about that one :D

     

    I never tried it but I would worry about stuff falling into the trays. Can you cover it somehow? I would think as long as everything is clean you would be OK.

     

    I put it in small rubbermaid containers. I have also heard of freezing it right in the Playtex bags but I never had success with this.

  4. ((Jean)) God bless you for taking on such a ministry. It takes truly special people to do God's work in these places.

     

    I would not say anything in a group setting just to individuals as needed.

     

    I probably would only say something about his behavior if it is relevant to the situation, like another person will have one on one contact such as a visit with him like you did.

  5. We are dealing with the same issue here too.

     

    So far here is what is working for us:

     

    A consistent bedtime/get up time. Dss go to bed around 9pm and are expected to get up around 7am. This works for us, you could insert your own time table.

     

    Adding a daily exercise routine. Not just more play but a daily routine like running at least 1 to 2 miles a day. The kids also go outside after dinner and play until bedtime.

     

    TV before bed stimulates both of my boys and makes it hard for them to sleep so unless it is a special occasion, like the Olympics, no TV before bedtime.

     

    Good luck! Keep us posted as to what works for you.

  6. Ok, I have been curious for quite awhile and silently wondered why teenage girls wear those elastic bands meant to put hair back in a ponytail around their wrists. Some don a few while others wear what must be over 20-30 on one arm alone. Occasionally, I have put one around my wrist in case I needed to use it for my hair. But, I couldn't imagine needing like 20-30 on the spur of the moment. Which makes me wonder, is this just a fashion trend like legwarmers and big hair (dating myself there aren't I??) or is there meaning behind it???

     

    I remember doing that in high school. It was a fashion thing.

     

    Remember jelly bracelets?

  7. :grouphug::grouphug:

     

     

     

    Jodi, I will offer the wise advice someone gave me when I was going through something similar. Just remember God put this man into your life to protect you and your dc. This man is your circle of protection in this imperfect world. DH's decision may not be the best right now for you but he does love you and God will bless that love if you trust in him.

     

    Keep praying that you will see God's will here and feel his peace. I will pray for you as well.

  8. We dissected some beef marrow bones today - now that we're done, I put them in a pot with water, onion and garlic. Is that right?

     

    Now what do I do? Make it into beef stock?

     

    Someone thrifty and culinary give me an idea!

     

    (and it had better not involve eggplant! :D or hippos.)

     

    Sounds like the makings of beef stock! Do the bones have meat on them? If not, I would add veggies like celery, carrots, spinach, whatever you have on hand. This will add to the flavor. Put all in a pot and then add water just until covered. Simmer for about 3 hours. I would then either freeze the stock for later, make soup, or use in rice instead of water.

     

    You could also freeze the bones and make stock when the weather is colder.

  9. I just wanted to let you know that I had a little baby boy Wednesday, August 6th at 9:40 p.m. We named him Miguel Antonio Pro and he weighed 8 lbs 3 oz. and measured 20 inches long (my biggest yet!).

     

    The most amazing thing about it was the way Miguel was delivered. We left the house at 9:15 p.m and got to the hospital at 9:30. Once I arrived on the LDR floor, the nurse at the desk asked me to put on a hospital gown in the bathroom.

     

    I went to the bathroom, quickly changed, and then felt an urge to go to the bathroom (or so I thought). Before I knew it, my water broke and I started bleeding. I put my hands down to feel what was going on and felt the baby's head right there! I quickly went to the door, opened it, yelled for help in the hope that a nurse would come to help catch the baby but nobody heard me.

     

    I then closed the door, and while standing up I felt the baby coming out. I was able to put one hand on his head and the other around his arm so that he didn't fall on the floor and I could pull him up towards me. Thank God he was O.K.! You can imagine the shock of the nurses and my husband when they heard a baby crying and then saw me.

     

    I am recovering quite well and am home now. The children all love their new baby brother.

     

    Isa! You are an amazing woman! God bless you!

     

    Congratulations on the new baby and welcome to the world Miguel!

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