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  1. 2 hours ago, athena1277 said:

    For some reason, I thought it was on you to prove you qualified for DAR.  I will definitely look into their records.

    How far is from the American Revolution back to the Mayflower? How many generations?  Is it possible that the Mayflower records, which I found to about 5 generations on several websites, will connect to a person who fought in the revolution? 

    Yes you do have to prove that you qualify for DAR, but if you have a family member (You said your great-grandmother) who was already a member then the research on decent from someone who fought as a patriot in the revolution has already been done and all you have to prove is the relationship to the member.  My mom’s first cousin is a member so she said I only need a copy of my grandparent’s marriage certificate and my mom’s birth certificate to tie the two together.  DAR has a research library in Washington DC that is open to anyone.  Our local chapter has done genealogy seminars at the library

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  2. I assume DAR will have the records she used to join because if you have a relationship to an existing member all you need to provide is your relationship to the member.  It wouldn’t take you back to the mayflower, but it should be a good start.  Joining is on my to do list - thanks for the reminder 😉. Your local DAR chapter can probably help you find her member number and give tips on the rest of the research.  

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  3. 39 minutes ago, MEmama said:

    I do not like it. 
    Some (but not all!.) threads use only half the screen on my iPad so scrolling through takes forever. And, posts that have replies are truncated so my method of reading “backward” from the last post back up to the break where I previously stopped doesn’t work any more. I doubt I’ll be able to keep up with long threads with this format. 
    I think it looks messier and less professional. I typically find that to be true with most updates. It’s petty, but the bold font for names is just hideous.

    It seems that the threads that use half a screen are the multi page ones.  It uses half the screen for statistics on who has posted recently and other data irrelevant to reading the thread.  Annoying 

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  4. On 8/11/2020 at 10:37 PM, Ktgrok said:

    Ugh, I HATE that! My DH used to try to "help" by cleaning as I was cooking. Drove me bananas! I think I like Rachel Ray more now, lol. 

    Yes, I'm fanatical too! 

    And I NEVER run the dryer when we are sleeping, or if we are not home. or the dishwasher. Both are known fire hazards, and I know someone who lost their house from a dryer fire. Had it happened when they were asleep they might have died. (and not when I'm not home because of the pets)

    I second the no dryer or dishwasher when asleep.  I might let the dishwasher finish if it is almost done - usually I have been more worried about water than fire with the dishwasher.  I grew up with a Uber-paranoid father who turned off the pilot light on the furnace and hot water heater when we left on trips so he was a bit over the top.  He was super ahead of his time on food safety as well.  I am more easy going, but some habits are hard to break.

    eta: the two people I know with significant house fires were the car in the garage caught fire and the second one the son knocked his lamp over into a pile of clothes in the morning and then everyone left for the day.  Apparently when daughter came home from school and opened the front door the influx of oxygen made it really take off.  I still feel bad on some level about the second one.  I remember driving down the street thinking it smelled like someone was burning leaves which was unusual in December, but didn’t see anything.  By the time I got the toddler down for his nap there were fire trucks all over the street  Luckily, there was a fire hydrant right in front of the house.

  5. I agree good is subjective.  I like a variety of things, but what I really want to be able to do is have a decent cup that I can fix while half asleep.  First, I would ditch the drip machine.  Seriously, forget you own it.  Most home drip machines (think Mr. Coffee) don’t get the water hot enough to make a decent cup of coffee.  I also can’t stand coffee that has been kept warm for too long.  I can tell when a restaurant hasn’t made a fresh pot recently enough as it sort of tastes burned.  Kurig machines are good, but I like to warm my cup up if I am sitting and reading or get distracted by my kids while drinking which you can’t do with a single serve maker.  Plus the cups seem expensive and wasteful.  My favorite is a percolator.  My 10yo could make an amazing pot for me before I woke up.  Use cold water and enough coffee - I use four measuring cups of water and a 1/4 of coffee for a pot.  I usually pour out some of it, but sometimes it just doesn’t turn out right when cut in half.  I use Folgers or similar grocery store brands so it isn’t too big a waste. The pot is equivalent to a Kurig cup. I like half and half in my coffee (not too much) but I gave up sugar.  My sister started coffee late in life (late 40s) and I about fainted the first time I was at her house and she asked if I wanted to stop by McDonalds for a cup on our way to a school program.  All the suggestions on methods and beans are good, but too advanced for beginners.  If you want to try some out I would try McDonald’s small with two creams - you like medium roast, Dunkin Donuts- you like super mild, Tim Hortins and you like a bit darker roast.  Good luck!

  6. 2 hours ago, square_25 said:
    grooming
     
    noun
    noun: grooming
    1. 1.
      the practice of brushing and cleaning the coat of a horse, dog, or other animal.
      "regular grooming is essential to the well-being of your dog"
      • the practice by an animal of cleaning its own or another animal's fur or skin.
        "mutual grooming expresses the friendly relationship between cats"
      • the practice of keeping a neat and tidy appearance.
        "she pays great attention to grooming and clothes"
    2. 2.
      the action by a pedophile of preparing a child for a meeting, especially via an Internet chat room, with the intention of committing a sexual offense.
      "online grooming has become a growing cause for concern"
       

    Yeah, not seeing it, sorry. It's not "grooming." Grooming would be something passed off as innocuous that gets a kid used to a particular kind of misbehavior by adults and normalizes it. It sounds like they made it clear for these kids that this was NOT normal and that they were allowed to be uncomfortable. 

    I still kind of don't like it, by the way. But calling it grooming seems off. 

    I think it fits the definition actually fits pretty well

    producer - pedophile, Netflix-internet site much more widely viewed than any chat room, intention- committing a sexual offense that millions (including some on this thread who seem to want to write this off as a conspiracy theory - shocking to me among a group of moms) apparently want to justify as not a sexual offense just because it sells and other people pay money to let their babies pretend to be strippers in training.  That others do something similar doesn’t make either one acceptable.  I don’t believe the show is an expose at all, because someone truly interested in changing things doesn’t commit the same crime that is being exposed.

  7. 4 minutes ago, Catwoman said:

    Ours is a Generac, and it will power the whole house. It’s not a portable generator — it sits permanently in our yard and it’s hooked up directly to the natural gas. It turns on automatically whenever there is a power outage and keeps running until the power comes back on. 

    We love having it!

    This is my dream.  I do remember being really ticked off one year after our third outage that the electric company had an advertisement in our bill for automatic natural gas powered generators.  My husband keeps trying to talk me out of it, but I really want one.  He thinks it is cheaper to just replace the stuff in the freezer than get a generator, but throwing out food really makes me mad.

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  8. 9 hours ago, frogger said:

     

    This is actually legal in many areas.  Lights that are timed work well but any intersection that is set up to change when it detects a vehicle will not dectect a bike. Most won't even detect a motorbike. I remember a motorcyclist waving me up close when I pulled up behind him. He rolled into the crosswalk so I could take his place as the first vehicle and the light finally changed. I have no idea how long he waited before I got there but it did take some time for me to understand what he was waving to me about etc. It simply wouldn't have changed if I would have just stayed back. 

     

    ETA: Most people who ride to work, do not do so in their business suit unless they live very close so it isn't good to judge by that.

     I don’t know of any lights around here that are set up to change when a vehicle is detected.  Maybe those are newer, not sure.  I would have expected a button in the crosswalk for pedestrians or bikes in that situation.  Our lights seem to be timed to speed limit or more general traffic patterns, but some do go flashing at certain times (like near schools) during off times.  I get that most people don’t commute in a business suit, but I see many of my egregious examples on Sunday mornings in people decked out with Specialized emblazoned across their chest quite often riding with others.  I also doubt too many people are commuting in those recumbent bikes that you can’t even see until you are coming over a hill.  They really seem to hate to stop.  I can’t speak to other states, but bicycles are required to obey traffic signals in Michigan.  I do know one of my old supervisors gave up road biking and switched to mountain biking because he decided road biking was too dangerous around here.  Back to European accidents, Europe does have the distinct advantage that people drive smaller cars.

  9. Around here (suburban) there are an increasing number of bike lanes, but there are still roads that don’t lend themselves well to them (curvy, undulating hills, no shoulder).  Most of the areas have installed safety paths for walkers and bikers, but the hard core ones don’t want to use them.  My biggest problem with road bikers (here most people are suited out for exercise, not commuting) is they expect drivers to respect them on the roads, but rarely do they follow the rules.  I have lost count of the times that bicycles pause for a red light, then proceed through the intersection or turn left on a red when they deem that no one is coming.

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  10. 1 hour ago, Seasider too said:

    And it seems to me that their banding together to coordinate a release date is notably self-serving. Which doesn’t cause me to doubt that they will effectively test - because none of them want that lawsuit. 

    Most vaccines have federal protection against lawsuits.  You can only sue pharma for drugs like vioxx.

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  11. 20 hours ago, SusanC said:

    TI-83 Plus just as good as TI-84 Plus? We don't use calculators regularly anyway, it will all be Greek to us, or maybe Reverse Polish. Not paying full price sounds good to me, especially for something that we will teach and practice for the test (and calculus background)

    Thanks, all! Searching on "PSAT calculator" was giving me score ranges and manipulations.@Lanny
    thanks for the link to College Board. 

    Well it won’t be reverse polish unless you buy an HP.  I ❤️ HP.  They are the most logical in my opinion and SO much better than the TI graphing I was required to purchase my freshman year in college.  I bought my HP graphing my junior year and have since purchased smaller non-graphing in the years since.  One of the bonuses was if anyone ever tried to borrow my calculator (in the days before a calculator app on my phone) they couldn’t use it and would hand it back 😄

    I think graphing calculators are propped up by school sales.  I don’t think a dedicated graphing calculator has much use after college.  I would wait to see if someone requires a certain model.

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  12. 41 minutes ago, dmmetler said:

    My DD has needed it for some college classes because the Pearson software expected it. She has avoided taking classes that were online or hybrid mostly because she prefers the lecture, and the lecture based sections have tended not to use calculators at all, but the calculus class this semester, which has lectures via TEAMS, but the assignments are online, has had some that require it. 

    It doesn’t help for a standardized test, but there are graphing calculator apps and you can graph equations on excel.

  13. 16 minutes ago, MEmama said:

    But that’s not really fair to the 200+campers who were rescued. I mean, California is dry in the summer. More so now than when I was growing up, but yeah. You've seen photos of the golden hills in Wine Country, it’s pretty because it’s dry. There can’t be no camping just because it’s dry. Idk exactly where the campers were, but it sounds perfectly responsible and not “high adventure”, it’s just that a fire got out of control fast. The hills and mountains are far more rugged than a lot of people realize.

    I've been backpacking in the Cascades when we could see and smell plumes of wildfire smoke. It’s terrifying, partially because it’s impossible to know where it’s coming from or far away it is. (I’ve also been camping during a tornado warning with sirens blaring all around us). It’s not as simple as it might seem to avoid the danger.

    I'm not equating your statement here, but my FIL actually blamed fire victims for “choosing to live in the forest” (cue Fox talking points). It was the first time I stood up to him—I really had it out. The fire he was talking about leveled huge parts of the town where my parents live, a city in the North Bay and hardly “in the forest”. His ignorance and free willingness to gaslight still leaves me shaking mad. I reminded him they live in tornado country. 😡

    They just got back from a week long off grid canoe trip to the upper Peninsula of Michigan with their trail life troop and have started talking about a trip to Alaska next summer.  I will say the article freaked me a bit and my first reaction to my husband was don’t go planning a (cross-country) trip to a drought stricken forest.  They have been camping during a tornado warning also so I understand you can’t avoid everything, but fires that can explode that quickly just don’t happen around here and are not something that would typically cross my mind.  I don’t blame the campers and I believe if the park service thought there was imminent danger they would have closed the park, but in general (as we have seen lately) many people don’t believe rules apply to them and I don’t necessarily trust people to follow fire bans and that sort of thing.  People can’t create a tornado or a hurricane, but people can start fires.  As to living in the forest and the science of forest fires in general, there was a very interesting Nova episode called Fire Wars that is worth a watch.

  14. I live in Metro Detroit.  Whitmer has issued about 175 executive orders since March, but I have not heard of a quarantine period for out of state visitors.  There might have been talk of one at the very beginning, but I don’t think it ever happened.  I have not heard of any county/city/township being stricter than her executive orders with the exception of Ann Arbor and Ypsilanti curtailing indoor gatherings due to the two universities.    

  15. 7 hours ago, Homeschool Mom in AZ said:

    One easy option is a turkey breast with herbs in a crockpot, Stove Top stuffing, instant mashed potatoes, instant gravy packet mix, steam in bag microwaveable green beans, and pumpkin chocolate chip cookies. Ta da! I usually cook for 20-30 and spend 3 days brineing a turkey then radiant heat smoked it on the grill, but about once every 5 years it makes sense for me to do an easy, small scale Thanksgiving dinner. Another option is turkey sandwiches with sweet potato fries and pumpkin chocolate chip cookies.  Done!

    My grandma always cooked a couple of chickens.  She told my brother they were small turkeys when he was little.  

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  16. Not sure how it will all play out at Thanksgiving and Christmas.  We will at least see my parents as we see them all the time.  They live a mile away.  The kids didn’t go over during our stay at home order, but that is over now.  My dad has dementia and my mom wants no part anymore with people staying away.  Her mental health was tanking during that period.  My brother and his family live in town so he will come as well - his kids are in college so they are always up in the air.  My sister and her family are in Texas and they never come for either holiday.  I doubt they would anyway this year.  My mother was so over the 10 hour drives to my grandparents through ice and snow when I was a kid that she vowed never to make anyone do that for her.
     

     My husband’s family is the bigger question.  They are generally seem very careful because of my 95yo MIL, but I am not around them much to know what day to day looks like.  They live 3 hours away and I have never really broken into the 3 sister circle that all live 5 miles from each other so I am never kept in the loop.  My MIL was in the hospital while my husband and oldest son were in the Upper Peninsula on a canoe trip in August and no one bothered to call and let me know until my MIL called and told my 7yo the day before she was going home.  We passed on Memorial Day, but we are going over for Labor Day.  My husband wants to go and MIL wants to see the kids.  We likely don’t have another year to wait out the virus so we will go.

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