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  1. Thanks! I'll check into the college specific sites further. DId look on facebook but nada. Local Craig's list is a good idea!

     

    I know for a fact that this is exactly like the original book with just additional writing instructions for the university tacked on as front matter. (I was in college textbook publishing for a few decades -ha!) And it certainly wasn't cheaper! Burns me that these kids have to pay so much for these books and then cannot offer the next class a break, you know? Think I'll try Ebay maybe too.

     

    Appreciate the help.

  2. Our ds took an honors freshman comp course at Bama last fall and they required the Hacker 'handbook' or what is titled "A Writer's Reference". Great book and great handbook but the school added several pages to the front matter of the book and called it a 'custom' so now I cannot figure out where/how to sell it since the ISBN doesn't match the regular edition. Do you think there is any college specific site or something? I tried searching but wasn't successful. I don't want a lot of money for it just want it in someone's hands who can use it. Thanks for any ideas!

     

    (Oh, bookstore doesn't buy it back - another of the publisher's 'deals')

  3. What does she want to do?

     

    Our ds graduated at 16, got an amazing scholarship, had it deferred for a year and began college at 17 without a hitch. And girls are more mature than boys, right? ;)

     

    As a family, you can make the best decision but it could certainly go either way. I don't think 17 is too young these days unless the student is not mature emotionally. They adjust!

     

    Good luck with whatever you do decide.

  4. I would look very carefully at the experiences of people of the same nationality as your children, in comparison to expat americans. I think the local attitudes to white americans compared to people of other races could be very different.

    Also talk to women who worked in positions of authority over there, not just the women who lived there as spouses.

     

    Excellent advice! I have a good friend who does consulting there (she (that's the important gender part) is a well known, high powered woman who has done education all over the world. She felt that Dubai was a place she was eager to depart from....BE cautious. Living there and visiting there are two distinctly different things.

  5. Last August, I went through this when our only ds(17) headed off to college across the country. Hard. I remember when some songbirds made a nest in the portal of our house and when spring came, the frenzy of the five of the little ones learning to fly, bumping into the walls, squeaking and emitting frantic sounds and flapping. It was nerve wracking. Same feeling for me when ds was gone. I worried like crazy about every little detail, you know? For all his life I had taken care of any surprises and now he was on his own. Had I done a good enough job of preparing him? Had I thought thru my own loss?

     

    Fast forward to the end of the year now and I can honestly say we both have grown tremendously. We have much more of an adult to adult relationship now as a result of me simply being forced to stay out of his way ;) IT is richly rewarding to see his growth and success in school ALL ON HIS OWN.

     

    Sure there was sadness and missing him, and an empty house not to mention a new relationship with dh as a result of it now being just the two of us. How did I get through it? Lots of prayer, no kidding, and good girl friends who took me to lunch and shared their own problems so I could focus on something other than my won. Finding new outlets for all that energy the used to go into schooling. My house was cleaner than it had ever been those first few months he was gone. lol And, I decided to return to the work I had done before I was married but on a freelance basis. Reconnecting with former colleagues and friends helped fill the void too.

     

    It wasn't a cake walk and it had to unfold as it was meant to be but I am very happy with the 'other side' now! I think it is a very individual thing as to how you handle it. I also think it does no good to immerse yourself in the grief and instead embrace the new relationship. :grouphug:

  6. No direct experience but my thoughts are that (1) it's 'that' time of year when everything becomes harder when homeschooling. Teacher and students are fried. Problems look large! (2) your dd sounds lovely and sweet and she is at that age where maybe adding more responsibility and independent work would signal to her that you recognize she is growing and maturing. Could she maybe help out more with your ds or be given some part in planning the school work for next year? (3) back off on anything that stresses you both till next fall. WIth a baby due and the year winding down, just get it over with ;) lol. I suspect that after the baby arrives and after you both have a couple of months of being 'off' then things could look a tad differently. In the end, you know she needs to be home for a few more years at least so design those years to meet her needs and yours. :grouphug:

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