I am pulling my DS (most likely!) out of private 5th grade. He is in a combo class (4 and 5) and has the same teacher as last year for 4th (a looping situation). His teacher is rude, grumpy, and has decided that DS is a troublemaker because he likes to READ. As in, if there is dead time in the class room (no instruction, no work to be completed) he wants to read. This is not ok for her. She was rude to him a couple of times on the first day and that really crushed him. He has had a lot of anxiety about the year due to this teacher and while we love our school (and hope to return next year, probably) we will not stay for this year. It is an unfortunate situation and feels like we are "breaking up" with our school because it is very small and really has a family atmosphere. It is sad, and will be difficult for me to navigate socially (with the other parents), but we've got to do what is best for our kid.
I home schooled for 1st grade years ago b/c he was very ahead in reading (started Kindy at mid-year 5th grade level) and I wanted to focus on the areas that he was at grade level or somewhat ahead instead of having an intesive, reading focused year.