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  1. Food:

    Confections of a Closet Master Baker - Bullock-Prado, Gesine

    The American Frugal Housewife - Child, Lydia Maria Francis

    Lost Recipes - Cunningham, Marion

    The Apprentice: My Life in the Kitchen - Pepin, Jaques

    Make the Bread, Buy the Butter - Reese, Jennifer

     

    Money/Business/Economics

    The Home-Based Bookstore - Weber, Steve

    Plutocrats - Freeland, Chrystia

    How To Manage Your Money When You Don't Have Any - Wecks, Erik

     

    Dogs/Animals

    Animals Make Us Human: Creating the Best Life for Animals - Grandin, Temple

    Merle's Door: Lessons from a Freethinking Dog - Kerasote

    Pukka - Kerasote

    Pukka's Promise - Kerasote

    For the Love of a Dog - McConnell

    Control Unleashed - McDevitt

    The Other End of the Leash - McConnell

     

    Misc:

    Making Sense of People: Decoding the Mysteries of Personality - Barondes, Samuel

    The Outermost House: A Year of Life On The Great Beach of Cape Cod - Beston, Henry

    Francona - Francona, Terry

    Switch - Heath

    The Year 1000 - Lacey

    Life Below Stairs - Maloney

    How Philosophy Can Save Your Life: 10 Ideas That Matter Most - McCarty

    Saying Goodbye - Rember, Julie

    Woman's Guide to Hunting - Zastrow

    Blink:  The Power of Thinking Without Thinking - Gladwell

    Out There: In the Wild in a Wired Age - Kerasote

    Hot Lights, Cold Steel: Life, Death and Sleepless Nights in a Surgeon's First Years - Collins, Michael J.

    The Apostle: The Life of Paul - Pollock

    Is This Normal? : The Essential Guide to Middle Age and Beyond - Whyte

  2. My kids were taught that they must never let anyone abuse them in any way, and that they have the right to defend themselves and to defend others.  I thoroughly educated them on the law pertaining to that subject.  They also took karate for a long time.

     

    This has come in handy a few times.  DS2 has had to defend himself twice (at ages 10 and 16), and DD has had to defend other kids from being bullied.  All ended victoriously for the good guys!  No one was hurt badly, and no one was bullied after the initial encounter. 

     

    I've come to the conclusion that bullies don't anticipate their prey defending themselves, and they don't like to feel pain.  School and camp officials who blame the defender don't get away with it when I am involved.

     

    DS3 was bullied by the principal of the parochial school he attended in the 8th grade.  When I found out about it, 2/3 of the way through the school year, I withdrew him and had fun chatting with her about the situation. 

     

    All of my boys were bullied by a preacher who attended their college campus's Christian Club meetings.  They thought he was in charge, but it turned out he was good friends with the faculty adviser.  My boys and other students who belonged to the club were interviewed, separately, by several college officials.  That ended well -- the preacher was banned from campus.

  3. Jean and Mariann, I hope you are both feeling better today, and don't tackle anything!  Rest & heal!

     

    I had 8 college students over here last night (including 4 of mine), 7 of whom ate me out of house and home ( a gallon of bean soup, 2 quarts of chili, 2.5 lbs. meatballs, a rotisserie chicken, 36 cans of pop).  At 1 a.m., I decided eating time was over.  That is when I discovered that I had forgotten to run the crammed-full dishwasher.  That is also when the dog decided to grab the container with the meatballs in it and take to the dining room rug.  He spilled a cup of sauce (grape jelly/chili sauce mixture).  I cleaned it up, even though I was so tired I couldn't think straight, which was how he got the meatballs to begin with.  He only ate 1/2 of them and I threw the rest away.

     

    I am always amazed by how much males can eat -- our guests had already had dinner when they arrived.  I was up until 3 a.m. supervising the kids. 

     

    So:

    Take care of dog

    Call Mom

    Clean kitchen - in progress

    Take out recycling

    Make vegetarian lasagne

    Get ready to go to friend's party & gather up stuff to take over there

    Go to party until 4 pm

    Maybe go to grocery store and pick up more oven-ready lasagne noodles and Italian sausage

    Maybe make a few lasagnas to eat and to freeze

    Maybe serve/eat/clean up after dinner

    Maybe comb the dog; definitely feed & play with  him

    Maybe get figures on paper so DH and I can discuss budget and financial goals for 2014

    Maybe discuss budget with DH

    Maybe throw caution to the winds and read instead of doing anything productive.

  4. Dorothy, this is a book that was recommended by someone here.  I own it, I've done the exercises, and I recommend it.  It has become my New Year's resolution to do this daily -- I should have been doing it all along!  I hope your library has it so you can see if it would be helpful to you.

     

    The Core Program: Fifteen Minutes a Day That Can Change Your Life

    http://www.amazon.com/The-Core-Program-Fifteen-Minutes/dp/0553380842/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1388591023&sr=8-1&keywords=peggy+brill
     

  5. I live in western PA, and pork and sauerkraut is a tradition here, too.  It's on the menu at a party I'm going to.  I don't see how anyone can eat that stuff.  Then there's haluska (cabbage and noodles) -- another traditional dish I cannot abide.  I'm sure that will be on the menu today, too.  Thank goodness it is a casual buffet, with people in and out all afternoon, and not a sit-down meal.

     

    I'm from the South, and I hate black-eyed peas, too.  I always choked one down every New Year's  Day, for luck.

     

    If we had even a halfway decent Chinese or Mexican restaurant here, that's what we'd have on New Year's Day.  I'd make sure there were lots of leftovers for midnight snacks and breakfast.

  6. I haven't seen a puppy or cat in a pet store in probably 20 years - are there places that still sell them? (Aside from visitors from the humane society...)

     

    Yes there are.  I haven't seen them either, but they are a main source for puppy millers to sell dogs to.  Reputable breeders never sell their puppies to pet stores, and they never send their dogs to a humane society.  In fact, unless something serious prevents them from so doing, a reputable breeder's contract states that if the new owner has to give up the dog, the dog will be returned to the breeder unless moved to a breeder-approved home.

     

    The type of puppy mill resellers I've seen are places that offer a variety of breeds for sale.  There is a place like that where I used to live.  Most of these places claim they sell dogs from reputable breeders; they are lying.

     

    There are dog auctions, where puppy millers purchase their breeding stock.  I know about them because there is a wheaten terrier rescue organization that goes to these auctions and buys all the wheatens to save them from this fate.

  7. UO - I am not saddened by the sight of animals in a pet store. In fact, I enjoy visiting them there.

     

    Do you know if there are puppies there, they are from puppy mills, and how puppy mills treat their dogs?

     

    I like looking at the rodents to desensitize myself.  I look at the birds and fish, too.  The ferrets are too smelly.  At our Petco, I don't think the animals are particularly well taken care of.  The cats there are from rescues.  I don't know if just anyone can get one, or whether they have to fill out an application.  There are no dogs, which is a relief since PA is state that has a lot of puppy mills.

  8. I think you have a great idea.  I may try that with my son.

     

    I have a son on the autism spectrum who has severe food issues, so I get where you are coming from.  My son has not eaten anything I've cooked (except for pancakes, if I happen to make them when they are on his good food list, and sweets) for 16.75 years.

     

    It doesn't do any good to buy what he likes unless he requests it, because his likes change within a limited list.

     

    So far, the only  new food he has added in the last 5 years is hot dogs, which he will eat 6 times a year.  He eats no meat, no fruit, no veggies, and hasn't tasted them except for one bite of a banana, and apples when he was 2.5. 

     

    He has been thoroughly tested for physical problems, and has been in therapy for years.  He's had everything done that can possibly be done, and nothing has changed. 

     

    It isn't a power trip.  My son will starve himself if I do not have food that he will eat in the house.

  9. I got in the clean tub and found to my horror that the water was cold!  I hauled my very blue bottom out of there very quickly, I can tell you.  I'll have to have dh look at the water heater after he gets home.  I think you sabotaged it. 

     

    How utterly horrifying!  How did you make it all the way to sitting down before you discovered the water was cold? 

  10. How 'bout Queen Jean? That has a regal ring to it befitting someone with the username 'Jean in Newcastle' :D

     

    :grouphug: your highness.

     

    Sorry, the Queen title has already been taken.  Funny, Jeanie Weenie suggested that a few days ago.  She was voted off the island!  But that was mostly because she was going to chop my head off! (She is not as meek as she appears.)

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