We just moved to a new state, and chose a house largely based on the good schools within half a mile. Our plan was to enroll our 3 dc into ps and supplement with afterschooling, because I am supposed to be starting nursing school in January. We knew the district has serious problems in some of its schools, and planned to look for alternatives before high school. However, when I called the district to enroll the dc I was told that we couldn't use the local schools because they're full. Instead, my dc will be bussed to inner-city schools within the district. The middle school my 7th grader would be sent to has 40% teacher turnover annually, abysmal test scores, a 20% suspension rate, and is rife with gang activity; the district could not tell me which school my twin 5th-graders would be assigned to, but were certain they would not go to our local school. We can't afford private school, so it looks like homeschooling is our best option even though it means me giving up on school (at least for now). Paying higher property taxes, or moving to a "good" area doesn't always ensure your dc will be allowed to attend better schools.
I feel embarrassed by my ignorance, but I never truly understood just how messed up the public education system has become until it impacted my family directly. I am grateful that my family has the option of homeschooling, even if it derails my own personal goals for now. My heart hurts for all the families who don't have the resources to choose to remove their dc from failing schools. The system needs changing, and while I'm willing to do my part to effect change via political action, I am not willing to send my dc to dangerous or failing schools to do so.