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  1. I voted other. We don't go out to eat much at all. But generally if we do go out, we tip based on what sounds like a good number based on how long we were there. So, if we are only there half an hour, we probably tip around 3 to 5 dollars. If we are there an hour, it's usually something between 5 and 10. The last time we went out to eat, it was lunch time, we were the ONLY people in the server's section and every time he left us, he went and sat at the bar playing on his phone. We gave him $3. Someone came and was sat in his section right as we were leaving. If they gave him the same $3 and stayed the same half hour (which is likely based on the fact that people don't tend to hang around for hours in a restaurant at 1:30 in the afternoon, and most folks here seem to tip a lot more than we do) then he made at least $8 an hour, to spend most of that hour playing on his phone. Which is about what my kid makes for a good solid hour of ringing up people at a large big box home improvement store, with NO phone playing (which I know because she won't even text a "hey, lemme talk to you later" until her break time.

     

    I really do actually do try to run these types of general calculations in my head. If we are out at dinner time (very VERY rare) and someone obviously is obviously working their butt off hitting several tables, I tip more based on the work they are doing. If they manage to sound totally authentic in their small talk, I totally tip more. Once, a waitress took my business card after a discussion about wedding photography. Even though I suspected that they were going to pitch it in the trash, she got a much bigger tip because she genuinely seemed interested in the conversation and actually...you know...doing her JOB, to the BEST of her ability.

     

    IOW, I don't tip based on the cost of my meal. I tip based on what I actually observe the server doing.

     

    AND, to be clear, I HATE HATE HATE the entire tipping industry in general.

    Editing because I realize I might have broke a rule....

     

    This is not how tipping is "supposed" to work in America.

  2. Personally I would let it go. It doesn't sound like you get together all that often. I have several family members who are more into monologues than conversations. I fulfill my obligations to remain in contact and they are family but I know I'll never be close to them. My father has always been like this. My grandfather is currently really bad but for him it is his deteriorating hearing.

     

    Oh! And I'm not saying you should let it go. I'm just saying that letting it go has worked best for me. I know having big talks about it or worrying over interactions would upset me.

  3. My church is casual. I watch toddlers during the second service and wear activewear pants most of the time. Either yoga pants or those tight capris.

     

    To meet the president my clothing choices would depend on where I was meeting him.

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  4. I think it depends on the kid. My oldest two were very competent at 5yos keeping a daily journal of 2-3 sentences. They would ask for spelling help sometime but are both pretty good naturally. They needed to learn that they could write something and it didn't have to be perfect all the time. My youngest is an awful speller though. She takes after me! I do have her write her own sentences, but I end up helping with spelling. She on the other hand writes loads more than her sisters in her free time. She makes cookbooks constantly, has a song notebook, writes tons of lists, and recently started a spell book about Harry Potter. It's all spelled horribly but is adorable.

  5. My daughter also left her retainer at Disney World. More specifically Holliwood Studios at the SciFi drive in! The server found it in the garbage and ran it through the cleaner. It came back HOT! We just had her put it right in. Lol I would totally wash it and be good to go.

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