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  1. I wouldn't say ours are unique either but....

    I use clothe towels and napkins instead of paper. I do keep paper towels for puppy clean up. I don't purchase new clothes for myself, hardly ever. I am wearing the same skirts and jeans that I had 10 yrs ago. I don't use the amount of detergent in the laundry that it calls for. I learned a long time ago that I can get along with less. I purchase some things in large quantity, shampoo, conditioner, I purchase in gallons. We don't purchase anything to drink. We drink water. No pop, juice, coffee, etc. I don't purchase cold cereal. Instead we have home made pancakes and eggs for breakfast. I never purchase mixes or premade. I cook from scratch. All I can think of for now.:D

     

    Like one poster said it all adds up.

  2. I would love it if my kids married and decided to take up residence with us. We could all work less, save more, and there would be less childcare worries.

     

    However, I lived with both my parents & in-laws when we were young marrieds and it wasn't fun. Now it was also a temporary things with all of us knowing that.

     

    I wouldn't want my kids and spouses living with us if they didn't want to. I would like to think living with us would be more pleasant than our experiences with our parents. But we also grew closer being in our own place. Is this just not a concept most Americans can grasp?

     

    I do believe it could work but I believe each family would definitely need their own space. I think if you have it so there is a common kitchen/laundry/dining areas, even a common family room but that each family would also have a small living room, and kitchen/dinet area that they could draw away in if wanted. There would also have to be the understanding that NO ONE would be offended when those areas were used instead of joining the main area/family areas.

     

    Because of our family situation my middle son and I have talked about such but we have more talked about purchasing acres together and each having our own house. Living close but not in the same house. I think for us that would be a better solution.

  3. I hate to admit that I didn't have very good relationship with my MIL. I called her, "Mrs. M**ll*r". She one time, after she had been just a bit hatefully controlling she told me I should call her 'mother'. I told her that I already have a mother. Did I tell you that we did NOT have a good relationship? Honestly, I really wish I could do many things over but can't.

     

    My dil and sil both call me mom. My dil is a simply sweety, yes, we have had rough spots but she is much more mature than I was and is willing to work through them/forgive and forget. My sil hasn't had a mom for many years so I think he really likes having the feeling of having a mom in his life again.

  4. I'm sorry. I hate finding something I really like and then not being able to pull it off.

     

    I have done a lot of sewing in my day and some without patterns but there is a lot going on with this dress. The waist line, the hem line, the way the skirt lays, the top part and the way it lays...... I would not have the confidence in being able to do it with out a pattern at all. One thing I have done is find 2 or three patterns that each might has a specific character of the item that I like and putting them together. That has always worked for me. One other thing you might try is if you have an old very limp sheet, using it for a pattern. In other words make your pattern out of the sheet, fitting it to your dd. I used to do this with wedding dresses for gals that the pattern was way off in one place or another.

     

    Hope you can make something work.:001_smile:

  5. Our local Dollar General is new in our tiny town, and along with the college crowd, gets a lot of family traffic. I have a problem with their magazine stand, which sits outside the check out counter, right next to the main door...so there is no way to avoid it. One of their magazine offerings is Maxim. Although it may not be as revealing as Playboy, it still has unbelievable cover pictures and provocative subject matter in nice big letters. Is there no law preventing stores from opening displaying this kind of material so openly? I hate for my girls to see it. :tongue_smilie:

    One of our grocery stores was doing this. I talked to the clerk about it and sort of got a shrug but the next time I went in the unacceptable mag. were gone. Speak up!:D

  6. :iagree: And if the dad got her a hard boiled egg and some juice, it sounds like he recognizes that this may have been exacerbated by a little low blood sugar as well.

     

    :iagree: This was the first thing that came to my mind. If he has realized that a healthy snack takes care of it, that is great? If you ever experience a low bs you will realized your emotions can really get out of control.

  7. That sort of thing happens all the time, and it's up to you whether or not you're willing to be the low man on the totem pole.

     

    But it's not you, it's them. Really. :grouphug:

     

    :iagree: These things used to really bother me but I realized that my dc do have good friends, they play with them often and I simply don't worry about the others. If they call and it works for us fine, if not, well, that is fine also. I don't spend time trying to make it work though.:tongue_smilie:

  8. I feel so relieved.

     

    I'm not saying that everyone should quit, please don't think that. But FOR ME, this was absolutely the right thing to do. It was a time-sink, a time-waster and I spent time thinking about what to post on FB instead of enjoying the moment. How sad is that?!

     

    I think there are people who use FB reasonably and then there are those who are like alcoholics and just need to quit. I needed to quit.

     

    Yay!

     

    I am so with you! I quit FB in July. It was causing way more stress in my life that I could handle. I came to the conclusion that there are some stresses I have no control over but I do have control over FB. I quit! I am really do believe that I gained about 3 hrs in my day.:D

  9. I have a Great Dane/English Mastiff cross that I am thoroughly in love with. She should finish out at 150lbs. She has been great to work with and very loving. Doesn't drool, low shedding, and really doesn't eat any more than our pitbull. She hasn't been very hard to train so far although she has required me to stay on top of training a little more than the cockers simply because of her size. I can't afford to let a dog that size get unruly.

     

    I agree with the Great Dane. I have never had one but from what I have seen they are awesome dogs.

  10. Our Labradoodles don't shed, don't drool, are very 'people' prone, not overly hyper now that they are out of the puppy stage, would love to be on the couch with us(I won't let them), they are just all around great dogs. One is about 40# and the other is I am guessing, around 55-60#. They do need to be groomed 3-4 times a year but only because their hair does get pretty long. I comb the curly one out once in a while to keep him from getting bad mats.

  11. There isn't anything in particular that's a huge challenge with this puppy. It's just that as long as she is awake and not in the crate, somebody has to be on puppy duty. She will decide that the corner of the chair would be a good chew toy and has to be told no. Then she'll decide that the leg of the table is a good chew toy and has to be told no. And then she'll find a pencil that fell to the floor and somebody has to take that away.

     

    I think my dh thinks that with two puppies, nobody will have to watch. He's delusional. With two puppies, you have to watch twice as hard.

     

    She really is a good puppy. She just has to learn about what things are ok to chew on and what are not. She has tried digging in a few spots in the yard and I have started putting her own droppings in the holes. So far, she hasn't tried to dig in those spots again.

     

    I'm walking her 2-3x/day. Dh thinks walks will be unnecessary with a 2nd puppy because they'll wear each other out. She walks really nicely on the leash.

     

    You have probably already done this but make sure she has plenty of things that are hers that she can chew on. When she starts to chew on something that is not hers and after you have let her know she can't chew on that be sure to direct her to something that is hers and praise her for playing/chewing with it. Right now our living room looks like a puppy toy war zone. :lol:

     

    I didn't see where having two at the same time made it so you needed to watch them less. If anything it is more. You have just brought double trouble into your house with two.:D

  12. We got two puppies from the same litter with this very idea. They are a great comfort and security to each other. As tiny puppies that did make them quieter and more content. However, they are not less work because there are two. They tend to be twice the effort, not half. I love them both and wouldn't get rid of either but I won't ever get two puppies at the same time again.

     

    :iagree: Our labradoodles are litter mates and they are a blast BUT house training them was a hurdle. They finally did both get it but not easy. I don't know about adding one after you are already on the way to having one trained.

     

    What are the things that you are having difficulty with?

  13. I wouldn't have a problem with him standing on the chair in order to participate in worship. To just stand, jump, play around...no, I don't like that. But if he's standing so he can see and feel like he's participating, I'm perfectly ok with that.

     

    If one is that worried about shoes on furniture, take off the shoes.

     

    :iagree: I feel that a child being able to comfortably participate in worship out weighs almost any neg. argument.

  14. i've read multiple threads that reference this and i'm trying to get a general idea of opinion on the matter...how much is too much? and does it matter what it is (i.e. the type of toy/play)

    i often let things like science and history slide because ds7 is so immersed in a lego creation but i'm wondering how much i should let this happen?

     

    When my ds was that age, he often played with legos while I read a history or science read aloud. At that point that was pretty much what our history and science was. I am an advocate of giving children plenty of creative free time. If you are getting the basics of math and reading in fairly consistently I would let him play.

  15. Jean, do you trust your chiropractor? Having that recommendation seems like a huge plus to me, as mine has never steered me wrong. Going once does not commit you for life. It doesn't even commit you for a year. Go, meet this person, find out what is recommended, try it, and if it doesn't help or causes too much extra stress, you can stop. That said, ask for your family's extra help while you adjust to any new treatments. Maybe the kids need to take on meal prep or laundry, or something else they are capable of doing but just haven't done yet.

     

    :grouphug: I hope this works out well for you.

     

    :grouphug: I totally agree with giving it a go. I trust my Chiropractor and if he recommended a natural-path I would be on the phone making the call. I do understand the $$s spent out though. It can get very old to spend the money and get no results or even worse, to feel worse.

     

    Praying That the Lord will lead you and give you wisdom.

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