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  1. Personally, I don't view the flu as a risk to be avoided.

     

    I also am not a fan of putting chemicals in bodies without a very good reason. I also need a very good reason to budget my family's time and money for something that isn't even fun.

     

    I have heard that the shot isn't that effective and also that it makes some people sick.

     

    If I had someone in the household or whom I often see who would be at serious risk if exposed to the flu, I would take that into consideration.

     

    :iagree: My personal experience with the flu shot is I have had one in the last 30 yrs, 10 yrs ago before we adopted our two, it was the first time I had had the flu in I really couldn't remember when and I got sick enough that my Dr wanted to admit me to the hospital. It took me almost a month to totally recoup.

     

    We eat a healthy diet, non of us are prone to get the flu or even a cold. I so no reason to put poison in their systems to prevent something that we don't normally get.

  2. I would explain that the man has been touching the boy's private body parts. At age 10, I sure hope your sons are aware that nobody is supposed to do this! I definitely think kids need to be aware that this is not OK and that if somebody tries to do that they must tell a parent. This is not about keeping them innocent, but about keeping them safe.

     

    :iagree: I have explained this as the person touched the child's private areas and although my two at 11 and 12 are still very innocent I have talked to them about their private parts and not allowing anyone to touch them there.

  3. More questions:

    The price of the Kindle Fire HD is the same at Amazon and Best aside that I have to pay 6.5% sales tax from Best. Is one better than the other for purchasing something like this?

     

    Also, do you get the extended warrenty on your kindle items?

  4. My dd, almost 13, had another AG on her Christmas wish list this year. She has 4 at present, 3 we have gotten her and 1 she bought with her saved allowance. She plays with them a lot. She also had some of the less expensive dolls from apartment stores but when we had to compact our living space last spring the barbie dolls and the department store dolls were what she purged. She wouldn't think of getting rid of the AG dolls.:001_smile:

     

    As someone else stated, the stories that goes along with them are great. She owns a few but has read multiple times every one that the library has.

  5. They have a new service called FreeTime:

    We already have an original Kindle and a Fire, but I'm considering getting an HD because of a new feature called Immersion Reading:

    We have an Audible account, and I love the idea of the kids being able to listen to the audio while the words are simultaneously highlighted on the Kindle (especially for my dyslexic DS).

     

    Jackie

     

    Thank you for all this info. It really does make the HD look tempting. My youngest is definitely dyslexic so that audio while text being highlighted would be great for him.

     

    I wonder if they will come down at all before Christmas.

  6. Are you talking about the Kindle Fire? My DD has one, and it doesn't need a screen protector. She does have a case though, which is bright yellow so she can find it when she leaves it lying around. Her Fire is a year old, and I'm pretty sure it is not HD.

     

    Thanks for your reply. Does she use it for books only or does she do games with it also? It doesn't need a screen protector? It won't scratch without? HMM!

     

    It is about $40 less to get the one that isn't HD. I wish I could see the two side by side to see the difference.

  7. I have been looking and thinking of Christmas for my two youngest. Not much money here so really trying to figure out which is the best way. They would like a lap top computer each but even the cheep ones are $350 and up so that isn't a real option. I was in Best yesterday and got to thinking that really all they want it for is to play a few on line games and to watch you tube lego stuff. I saw the Kindles there and got to thinking and wondering if that would work. I was really sort of excited until I talked to the clerk and he recommended the HD($200), said a good case was a must($45), and of course you need a good screen protector($30). :001_huh: I quickly added it up and well, that adds up to $275. Take it times two and .........

     

    Do they really NEED the HD version? The $45 case he recommended was one that you can easily view the screen long or wide, is that really important? I am sure my dd will use hers for books also and think she has died and gone to heaven but is there a less expensive way to do this and still get accomplished what they are wanting?

     

    I am sure there are more questions I should ask but really don't even know what I am talking about so hopefully you sweet people will fill me in.:D

  8. awe.... hugs for those kids indeed!!!

     

    And yet.... I'd never in a million years visit a dentist who did not allow me to be with my young son during his visits....

     

    :iagree: I can not tell you how many things would have been done to my two kids if I had not been in the room with them. I WILL NOT TAKE THEM TO A DENTIST THAT DOES NOT ALLOW ME TO BE THERE.

     

    We all know there are verbally abusive parent. Don't advocate for the punishment of the ones that are not to be locked out of their child's care. I am not saying this in a mean way but I do feel very strong about it.

  9. I have been struggling with a similar question. My dd is soon to be 13 and for Christmas she is wanting another AG doll. My decisions was, she plays with them so why would I not get her what she is asking for. She will probably not be playing with them any more in a year or two but does that matter? I vote get what you feel you dd will enjoy now.

  10. I could be just a mom and a homemaker. Honestly tired of the whole educator/chauffeur gig.

     

    Thank you for "listening." :)

    :grouphug: When I start getting simply worn out I try to pull back and evaluate why. Have I taken on to much(which is generally the case), do I just need a break(which is some of the time), do I need to change up our schedule so things run a bit smoother.

     

    The other thing that I evaluate is 'why' I home school my two. I have some very definite convictions along with some medical issues for keeping my two home. Many time all I need to do is review my reasons why and I am good to go.

  11. Most allergy concern seems to be about peanuts and treenuts. I have never seen much attention given to anything else. I don't know what foods no one is allergic to (seaweed?), much less that a roomfull of kids will all eat. In my (private) elementary school we had graham crackers and apple juice made from concentrate. :ack2: I still dislike apple juice. I don't understand why snacks are so expensive unless the district has been taken over by some French gourmets and cheese and meat plates are part of the deal.

     

     

    I graduated in the early 90s, during a financial crisis in my school district. I had to buy my own chemistry textbook (about $60). I had to buy chemicals for the group project I worked on. We had NO tissues in the classrooms and no spare pencils. We did have shiny new metal detectors and laminated posters everywhere with the 800 number to report tips on future shootings. :glare: We were forced to fundraise. I also had to fundraise at another school I attended across the country. The process was almost exactly the same, starting with the assembly with eating contest, pep talk, prizes, and then the threatening speeches. However, it seems out of control these days to me, too.

     

    I can't have anything with sea weed in it.:)

  12. That is supposedly the reason why the school must provide them - so all snacks will be approved allergen-free. :blink:

     

    WOW! they have quite a job to do. All snacks will need to be at the very least, gluten, dairy, egg, soy,corn, nut, tomatoe, strawberry....... the list goes on. 5 of these would be on my one dc's list. What are they going to feed these children that is ready made?:confused:

  13. My 8 year old dd has asked for Breyer Horses for Christmas. Apparently one of her friends has some and introduced her to them. I looked on Amazon, but I don't know where to start. Ideally, I would like to get a few horses, some accessories and then some sort of stable. I saw a Melissa and Doug stable made out of wood. Would that work? I appreciate your help! :-)

     

    I have purchased several Breyer horses for my dd. The main problem with them is for the expense they are very fragil, the legs break off quite easily.

     

    I have found that these are much sturdier and not as expensive.

    http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=schleich+horses&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Aschleich+horses

  14. Ok, first off, I need answers from those who identify as Christian AND who believe:

     

    That fornication (s#x before marriage) is a sin.

     

    That living/embracing a homos#xual lifestyle is a sin.

     

    Please, I'm begging you. I'm not trying to debate these things. I fully understand there are those on this board that DO NOT agree with the above two statements. But I really DON'T feel like debating that right now. :tongue_smilie: I just need some advice input from people who DO agree with those two statements. PLEASE start another thead if you'd like to debate. :001_smile:

     

    Ok.

     

    There is someone in my life who has taken the following stand, and I don't know yet how I feel about it.

     

    Person A says that their adult female child is not welcome to bring their girlfriend to Person A's home. (Said adult female child is openly homos#xual, and Person A has been introduced to adult female child's girlfriend.) Person A has explained their position on NOT welcoming adult child's girlfriend as the following:

     

    "If adult child was openly fornicating/living with a boy, I wouldn't allow that boy in my house, either."

     

    Person A has young children at home that are being taught that both homos#xuality and fornication are sins.

     

    How do you feel, *as a Christian who also believes homos#xuality and fornication are sins*, about Person A's position of not welcoming the adult child's girlfriend into their home?

     

    Two more bits of info that I think are relevant:

     

    Adult child's young siblings who live at home do NOT know that adult child is openly homos#xual. They have breifly met adult child's girlfriend ONCE, and she was introduced as 'This is Sissy's friend'.

     

    Also, neither adult female child NOR her girlfriend identify as Christians. This matters to me because I believe that it is not the place of a Christian to hold a NON Christian to THIER Christian beliefs. I hope that made sense. :tongue_smilie:

     

    I'm not sure exactly how I feel about Person A's position. Honestly, it initially caught me off guard. And while I still don't feel comfortable with Person A's position, it is my, uh, *place*, if you will, to support Person A in their decision not to welcome adult child's girlfriend into their home.

     

    Ugh. Yes, I realize many of you are able to read between the lines and figure out what I'm talking about. PLEASE, I need/want honest feedback; but help me follow board rules by NOT bashing. PLEASE.

     

    Also feel free to PM me if you'd rather.

     

    Bethany, I believe that sin is sin and yes these two areas according to the word are sin, along with excess drinking, eating, doing anything that defiles the body(consumning many unhealthy foods), not loving your neighbor or brother, etc.

     

    I have to ask if this person that is making this stand would reject said child if the person they cared about was over weight? or smoked? or consumned pop regularly? In my thinking they are all the same in the eyes of God.

     

    My oldest dd lived with her boyfriend for 2 yrs before they got married. I talked to her, she knew, but I never refused relationship with her nor her boyfriend. The only stipulation I put on it was that they could not spend the night in my home. I too have two young children.

  15. Well, I agree that FIL and aunt should step up, but if they won't, then someone else should. If they are willing to move, are they willing to move to assisted living near you?

     

    :iagree: Some times older people just need help with a bit of direction and the knowledge that if they take that step there will be someone there to help.

     

    One other thing, as far as driving, go through their Dr. When my dh was passing out for no apparent reason I asked the Dr while dh was sitting there if it was ok for him to drive. WELL>>>> I did the same when they figured out why he was passing out and got the driving restrictions removed. The Dr really can be a driving force(no pun intended) in this issure.

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