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  1. In our home, it finally caught up with me and dh: We had talked the talk, but when it came down to it, we need to work on this ourselves.

     

    We have decided to make some mistakes on purpose. Next we will have our dc also make some mistakes on purpose.

     

    It's a strange thought. Going to be harder to do, I think. But how else will we become comfortable (and not afraid) to make mistakes?

     

    Just sharing my thoughts. Only just beginning to implement. But when I talked to my dc about it, we were all giggling at the thought. Certainly that can't hurt:D

  2. I think that if you are using the term fairly loosely, just to mean a social or non-social person, it can happen.

     

    If we're talking about typology, than an exytovert is someone who gets their energy from time spent socially, while introverts get it from time spent alone. So there are introverts that appear to be very social and enjoy it, but they still really need time alone to recharge. And the same for extroverts I guess. So it could be that before you were a very social introvert, and now you are still an introvert who is less social.

     

    Some people are less extreme as well, so they might go from being a borderline extrovert to introvert, and I think life experience and situation would really play into that.

     

    Yep, this. I am in my 40s and have experienced too much of other people's drama and crap. I've always been an introvert, but used to enjoy being around others more than I do now. In fact, anymore I rarely want to be around others. I have wondered, though, if this will change when I am not so busy with self education and education of my dc. I only have so much energy to go around!

  3. Have you read Climbing Parnassus?

     

    I've intended to take a look at this book for a while now. Just ordered it from the library. Thank you.

     

    Hie thee over to the K-8 Board and look for the big Circe thread, if you haven't already. Good stuff there.

     

    Thanks. Will do.

     

    :iagree:

     

    This thread

    Also check out the tags on that thread for even more discussions.

     

    Best wishes

     

    Thanks for the link and the well wishes :)

  4. I would say, to this point, I have struggled to educate my children classically. The more I try to teach in a classical way, the more I see that I don't understand the nature of it. The *idea* of it is elusive.

     

    I am a complete product of a weak public school education, including college. I grew up in a very pragmatic home and am, by nature, intensely practical. This is my "grain". Classical training continues to go against my grain.

     

    I am convinced of the rewards of classical education. I understand the stages: grammar, logic, rhetoric and what they mean. I use great books (classics) in our school, though I fall short in analysis and other study. I am barely grasping the idea of teaching "disciplines" rather than "subjects" and integrating them.... Just to give you an idea of where I am in my journey.

     

    I think part of my confusion may be rooted in the brands of "classical" education around me. But what I am interested in is the substance. I feel like I have been grasping at the shadow, iykwim.

     

    How do I retrain myself to understand, embrace, and teach it?

     

    Thanks for any insights!

  5. Separate homes and kitchens! I lived communally for a short while with a common kitchen. It was tough. I even gained weight due to eating whatever was prepared for the group. I hate cooking, but this experience was nothing I would want to repeat, especially now that I have a family. Meals and family "go together". I wouldn't want to share family or meals on a regular basis.

  6. So... I'm new to homeschooling, and next year my DS will be in first grade. We started afterschooling this year, and have learned a bit about his learning style. We tried Math Mammoth and that resulted in a three-month "I hate math"-fest. It wasn't the curriculum's fault, he just isn't a fan of worksheets. And I so wanted him to like worksheets...

     

    So my humble request is to ask: what would you recommend for curriculum for a bright first grader who hates worksheets, is almost done with OPGTTR, and is also done with SOTW ancients? He is a visual/auditory learner, and loves watching tv (to my dismay, but it is useful). We are non-religious folks.

     

    I've searched curriculum from here to there, and have completely paralyzed myself... Thanks for any thoughts and/or recommendations.

     

    Not Peach, but have you looked at RightStart Math? Very little in the way of worksheets, conceptually strong, interactive (auditory), great manipulatives (visual), and math games for practicing facts.

  7. I am so, so sorry that this woman is treating you this way :grouphug: . It doesn't sound like she has ever been the friend you thought she was. I don't know what you should do about the business part of it but I would let this person go. :grouphug:

     

    :iagree: It seems she was never the person you thought she was. Safe? Caring? No, just judgmental, deceptive, arrogant.

     

    We should be able to vent and not be "happy" all the time around real friends. Real friends are a safe place where we can be authentic and free. It seems she couldn't handle this. She's got problems that she doesn't see...and wants to put this whole thing off on you, IMO.

     

    Don't beat yourself up. It wasn't wrong for you to trust her. It wasn't wrong for you to charge her for your work. It was presumptuous of her to think otherwise - and on top of it she didn't even communicate directly (forthrightly) with you!

     

    Take your authenticity and your friendship and offer it again to someone worthy. All the best. Sorry you are hurting :grouphug:

  8. He did. The only one I could plainly see with my own eyes is the one my dentist agrees is a definite cavity. It looks like an ice-cream-scoop dip into the tooth enamel and you can see the grey shading behind.

     

    I do think a second opinion could not hurt if you have a child who went from no tooth trouble to extensive trouble from one check-up to the next.

     

    Btw, thank you! Gonna do just that.

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