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  1. You said for your part you were always open to a relationship with them. You also said re the Christmas cards that your mil probably kept them from fil. So, yes, you should feel free to go and grieve with those who grieve. Drama can only really happen if both parties engage - purpose in your mind not to engage. God bless.
  2. No, even though my dh wouldn't tell anyone I still feel keeping confidence is very important. Not too many of my friends feel this way though, so I tell them less and less, which is fine. At least I know who my true confidants are!
  3. Chiros are not created equally.... Some specialize. I know of a chiro who referred his client to another chiro who specialized in scoliosis. Yes, expensive, but if the alternative is surgery and pins, I would put out the money. Btw, the chiro said wearing a brace only makes the curvature worse, which makes sense since the muscles weaken and can't hold the spine as well. HTH. Best wishes.
  4. :iagree: This bears repeating. Generous souls! Further, I find the discussion here a bit enlightening. I have been carrying some pain due to the way relatives treated my dying one. I would accept no excuse... But people are people and we are at different points in the journey. God bless you, Strider.
  5. :iagree: gosh, so much to think about. We'll be there someday soon enough, but everyone's input is good for daily business, too.
  6. Hope you've had a GREAT day :) Happy Birthday!
  7. Check out a paleo or primal cookbook from the library and see if you could eat this way, increasing toward a goal. Maybe start 50% daily paleo eating and move toward 90-100%. Cut out sugar, grains (yes, even "whole" grains), and all/most processed foods, combined with some form of exercise (walking, swimming, biking, rebounder, whatever!) WILL do it for you. Just start at a reasonable, but noticeable point. Do 50% paleo for a couple weeks, increase every few weeks. Same with some cardio and then add in some strength exercises. Search the forums...lots of talk about paleo lately and exercise programs. Best to you!
  8. Yes...but I often (not always) select my own gift from dh. Not complaining though, then I get something I've been wanting :D
  9. Not sure whether my acct was hacked or my card number stolen, but just yesterday we noticed an unauthorized credit for Trend Micro. No skin off of my teeth...I was immediately refunded, acct closed, new acct created. For the record, we do not bank online. I am wondering how many of you do bank online.
  10. Cook frozen beef separately (lazy started in the morning when I forgot to take it out of the freezer). When almost cooked, throw in some Organic All-Purpose Seasoning (from Costco). Cook Quinoa (2:1 water) While these are cooking, wash and chop bell peppers and zucchini and place atop Quinoa when it's nearly done. A couple minutes later throw grape tomatoes on top of other vegs. Turn off and let sit until meat is done. Toss all together in quinoa pot, mix in feta cheese crumbles. Prep is 15 min.:auto: Ok, on super lazy/busy nights, eggs and toast, brats and salad. OP, I like your ckn roast and veggies plan!
  11. Gosh, that was a great read. People's comments were interesting, too. Thx for posting!
  12. Bueberries, and basically increase raw fruits and veggies are what I've read.
  13. Prayers for peace and strength. Advice? Be open to the miracle you mentioned...perhaps the safety net God may (or may not) have for you.
  14. On various levels already mentioned, I would definitely have a problem with someone teaching in a public classroom wearing a niqab. I agree with Germany's view, basically. I get so tired of how we bend over backwards to accommodate other cultures! Let people of various cultures and religions practice in ways that do not affect others, whether privately or publicly. In America, communication is understood through body language in large part. So, I would not tolerate my dc to be without that for an entire year of their learning. If wearing a niqab is that important (where she would not remove it to teach - or she would throw it back over her face ONLY when men walked into her classroom.... This would certainly demand an explanation to observant, curious children, after all) I could not support this.
  15. In my kids' experience, asking the offending kids questions has always worked best. it stops the offender, giving them pause to think about their behavior and *why* they did that rude thing. if they say, "to provoke you" (never heard tis one before!) teach your kid to shrug and say, "ok" and move on to the next thing. My oldest is good at asking questions or confronting extremely rude behaviors, and they have always stopped. But telling a kid to ignore without any other interaction hasn't been effective here. Do some role playing to empower your ds.
  16. If my dc don't rinse and stack their dishes, for example, the consequence is I call them to do it when they are in the middle of doing something, which of course no one likes :D. I have purposed to be more vigilant and call them into account for their (selfish) actions. I don't berate them or nag them....I have them do the thing they didn't do when they should have and I remind them of 2 things at that moment: It would have been more convenient if they'd done it immediately and it is what dh and I expect of them. That's it. It is training that's needed - consistency over a long period of time.
  17. My 2nd was like this (after having a perfect first;)). I wish I had taken my db to a chiropractor. Db was born sooo fast.... I've wondered for yrs if an adjustment would have helped since nothing else did.
  18. :grouphug: so sorry for your heartache and for your loss.
  19. Is he on any meds, like for ADD/ADHD? If so, that can suppress growth.
  20. Oops, posted from when I read this thread earlier today! I see you've made your decision with the added info of the birth certificate. Even though it isn't a perfect (desirable) situation the whole way around, they will be so lucky to have you in their lives. All the best....
  21. :iagree: :iagree: and, to add to your list.....I have had people comment on my and other's prayers! No one asked for your commentary :glare: very much dislike everything on your list, too.
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