My 2 cents- My husband had them out at 30yo. The surgery was fine. Recovery as you know was awful. One thing that sticks out i my mind that he said helped him- keep your throat moist at ALL times. Constantly sipping on water. Constantly. He said that made it bearable. Also, the doc originally rxed him pills to swallow, but he specifically had to ask for liquid pain meds. Don't know why they do that.
Also, about the anesthesia- I had to have my appendix out (emergency) a few months ago. I was most terrified about the anesthesia. They do give you something to relax. When I was in the OR, they put that mask on me, my head fell over on my pillow, then I picked it up again- the surgery was over! I was afraid I would be aware of what was going on (I am a light sleeper). Nothing like that. It's like time speeds up. You close your eyes, then open them and it's done.
It's funny to see your post today. I am currently recovering from getting my top 2 wisdom teeth out on Thursday. It was a piece of cake. Now, mine were hyper- erupted and crumbling. But I put it off for 10 years for fear of the pain. Recovery pain doesn't scare me (3 c sections)- that's what pain meds are for! But being aware of the procedure/ surgery during it- that terrifies me. And my dentist said he could get them out without putting my under (saving a few hundred $$, of course). He gave me valium (1 night before and 1 hour before procedure)- BIG HELP. Just the usual pricks from a needle for numbing, then puuullllll to one side, then puuuulllllll to the other, then it came out. Just do it. And if they are impacted, you will be put to sleep by an oral surgeon and wount remember a thing.
Hope that helps. PM me if there are any questions (for either procedure) that I didn't answer.
Sharon