Hello Caryn,
I haven't read all the replies, so hope I'm not repeating anything.
We also use MFW and I've had to tweak but for different reasons (we homeschool bilingual and some things we do in Spanish). The MFW1 phonics does move fast for some. I just started (again) the phonics this January, dd's second grade year (Spanish is her first reading language and English was getting confusing for her last year, although she's bilingual). Are you using the games suggested in the Appendix? My dd enjoys those, as well as HOP (yes, we use that too. We got it free from a friend.).
And, I don't think it's too late start something over. We missed a lot of the 1st program last year because I was working full-time. Although she loves math, I noticed there was a gap. So, this week, I pulled out 1st, looked up book suggestions for math, checked out Family Games for Math, and that's what we're doing.
I wouldn't worry about where she is in math. My daughter finished K as a 6yo (turned 6 in Sept. of K year). She couldn't remember what 6, 7, and 9 were written down, let alone recognize numbers above that. By the end of 1st grade, I saw I had nothing to worry about. Something "clicked" and she grew mathmatecally by leaps and bounds.
Your daughter is still very young. If you are using the math in MFW, it's a good base (that's why I'm going back to do the things I didn't do last year). Using the manipulatives that you make, etc., continue showing adding and subtraction before putting it down on paper. There are a bunch of ideas in MFW1, Family Games for Math, and I believe in Ruth Beechick's books (I can't look at them right now because I let someone borrow them :001_huh:). Showing them concretely is very important right now.
I wouldn't add anything to what you're doing. HOP is a good program (my friend's kid learned to read with it, and my dd is really enjoying it!) and will give your dd the practice she needs. Also, remember, you make a curriculum work for you, you don't have to make yourself fit into the curriculum. However, there are many things in MFW that will lay a great foundation if used, even if you do it more slowly that suggested.
Renai