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  1. But if you're invited to a baby shower, and it's all adults, and even the older sisters of the baby are not coming, because it's a small, breakable item intensive space, you do not, I repeat DO NOT, call the hostess and INFORM her that you are bringing your daughter as well. Just not done.

     

    the flipside of that, though, is calling and cancelling because you have nobody to watch your kiddo ~ then you're on THAT list. :p

  2. There's a little confusion here: the laws nationwide prohibit the sale, distribution, or public possession of alcohol to persons under 21. But 33 states permit consumption of alcohol by persons under 21, and 16 more states permit consumption of alcohol by persons under 21 under specific circumstances (e.g. they are in the presence of parents or a spouse).

     

    Also there are other minor exceptions; for instance, a religious exception (communion wine), and certain military exceptions (bases more than 50 miles from U.S. territory, or with a waiver from the commanding officer).

     

    it's still kinda wonked that a 20 year old ADULT would need "permission" (or mommy supervising!) to have a beer after work.

  3. hmmm...given the older age range and the request for not even 'mild lego style' violence, i'm wondering if there might be some special needs or something at work here? i'm not asking to be 'nosy' ~ i'm just asking because if there are, it might help for people to be aware of that when it comes to game suggestions. :) i'd have suggested looking for some trivia type games, or word play stuff - but i don't know if those would be appropriate?

     

    if there isn't, okay. if there is - might help to add that info.

  4. Well, at least he didn't tell her she had to stand outside the bar while he went in and had a drink! :lol:

     

    my mother told me that my father used to take me out for a bike ride when i was 2 (in the old white kid seat) and stop in for a drink somewhere* before we went home - she said he'd take me in and set me right up on the bar counter, sit there and have his beer while i babbled away and tried to grab anything shiny. :p

     

    *it wasn't a normal bar; it was something on the base.

  5. "We don't consider spanking abuse, but we do encourage some parents to use alternative methods," said Marleigh Meisner, public information officer for CPS

     

    that individual would only be able to speak for the CPS office in which she is working.

     

    29 countries have made corporal punishment of a minor by their parents illegal.

     

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    Corporal punishment of children by parents, is unlawful in the following countries:

     

    Austria - since 1989

    Bulgaria - since 2000

    Croatia - since 1999

    Costa Rica - since 2008

    Cyprus - since 1994

    Denmark - since 1997

    Finland - since 1983

    Germany - since 2000

    Greece - since 2007

    Hungary - since 2004

    Iceland - since 2003

    Israel - since 2000

    Kenya - since 2010

    Latvia - since 1998

    Luxembourg - since 2008

    Moldova - since 2009

    Netherlands - since 2007

     

    New Zealand - since 2007, when the Crimes (Substituted Section 59) Amendment Act 2007 came into effect. However, a non-binding citizen-initiated referendum on corporal punishment in August 2009 produced a large majority against the ban. A private member's bill was then introduced to Parliament to overturn the ban, but it failed at first reading: see New Zealand corporal punishment referendum, 2009.

     

    Norway - since 1987 [3](The Supreme court ruled in 2005 that a light "careful slap" applied immediately after the "offence" is still allowed.[4] Legislature abolished this in 2010, and the current law is that any violence against children, including careful slaps, are prohibited.[5])

     

    Poland - since 2010

    Portugal - since 2007

    Romania - since 2004

    Sweden - Parents' right to spank their own children was first removed in 1966,[6] and it was explicitly prohibited by law from July 1979.

    Spain - since 2007

    Tunisia - since 2010 [7]

    Ukraine - since 2004

    Uruguay - since 2007

    Venezuela - since 2007

     

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    in my country (canada) it is still legal but there are restrictions: it can ONLY be the parent or legal guardian (babysitters, grandma, etc can not spank) doing it, the child must be between the ages of 2-12, and only the open bare hand is permitted (no belts, spoons, paddles, or other implements.). also, spanking on the bare bottom is not allowed - there must be clothing/diaper/etc covering the child at the time.

     

    personally ~ i will be very pleased when canada is able to be added to the above list. :)

  6. Well, I heard back from the hospital. She said it costs $324.75 for the ultrasound, plus whatever the cost is for the outside radiology doctors to read the x-ray (which I found out is $100.00), so we're talking $424.75.

     

    She said I could do a payment plan.

     

    Or I could call back on Monday when the person who handles 'charity care and discounts' for uninsured people is in. She THINKS, but is not sure, that that person can offer me either 20 or 25 percent off a bill over $250.00, but she also thinks that's only if it can be paid off sooner than a payment plan would be, or some such. But she wasn't very clear on the details. So I will call that person back on Monday and find out. She also suggested I call those radiologists back afterward and let them know "the hospital gave me such and such a discount for not having insurance, can you do the same" to see if they would read the ultrasound results for less than $100.00.

     

    So yeah I will call her Monday, but in the meanwhile, I will see if either of the other two places I called this morning get back to me at some point today and if they give me a better price.

     

    this is just horrifying to me. :(

     

    this is health care ~ not getting your house painted. the idea of having to shop around and ask for discounts & payment plans.....that's just not right.

     

    [and then of course there's the whole "lose everything you own if you get sick" thing.]

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    8. We can attend a Christmas concert, if we can find one that is free. I'm looking around for this ahead of time, because there is usually something that I find out about after it's happened. Not this year! LOL!

     

     

     

    check the websites for your local elementary schools ~ they usually have christmas concerts throughout december and those are always fun to watch...christmas songs, plays that always go a little wonky... :laugh:

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