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  1. Potter

    low carb

    unschooling

    Obama

    Bush

    Clinton

    vaccines

    extended nursing (yes, I know how to count)

    Saxon

    Singapore

    cursive

    pagan

    witch

    halloween

    santa (should he be capitalized?)

    ebay

    Wal Mart

    Green Day

    Praise Team

    Osteen

    Pearls

    Ezzo

    antibacterial

    Ramsey

    homebirth

    Pledge

    Iran

    Iraq

    Afghanastan

    Israel

    tipping

    HSLDA (you didn't ban initials)

    spanking

    The Passsion (movie)

    Goosebumps

    Spongebob

     

    But who's counting? :D

  2. John 9:34 - They answered him, "You were born in utter sin, and would you teach us?" And they cast him out.

     

    (This is the Pharisees questioning the man whose blindness had been healed on the sabbath.)

     

    and tangentially related:

    Romans 5:18,19 - Consequently, just as the result of one trespass was condemnation for all men, so also the result of one act of righteousness was justification that brings life for all men. For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous.

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    Worst part, this "big stick" came all wrapped up in Christian terms.

     

     

    :iagree: Bleah, bleah, bleah.

     

    And I think your impression of the situation is right on. Thank goodness the co-op leader sounds completely reasonable!

     

    And you must be proud of your son! He handled it with much more grace than was shown him.

     

     

     

    I was totally incapable of dicussing the subject with her and proceeded to ask her if she had eve seen a recipe for homemade marshmallows. :confused:

     

     

     

    So is this a variation of "pass the bean dip"? I'll have to learn the recipe for homemade marshmallows so that I can use this.:D

     

    ETA: This needs to be cross-referenced with "E-mails from crazy people" thread! This one is almost better than the two linked!

  4. I'm answering before reading other responses.

     

    I can imagine two scenarios for this letter - it could be a letter that one of my dd's had received (I can even picture the particular advisor who would write such a letter;)), or I can imagine, as a scout leader and someone who works with youth at church, writing this letter.

     

    And theoretically, either scenario should lead me to the same comments, should they not? So thinking of it both ways should allow me to filter out both snark and defensiveness for the situation.:D

     

    OK -

    In general, the writer has pretty straightforwardly addressed some issues he/she sees in the recipient's leadership. But when I consider that this is an adult writing to a 14yo, it seems much too harsh and unforgiving. I'm not sure a 14yo could properly learn from criticism given in this fashion. An older student (18, 19 maybe), possibly. Gentler criticism, less personalized would still be preferable, even for an older student. Even a very mature 14yo still is very immature in many ways - I imagine the episodes listed are manifestations of that immaturity. The adult needs to take some of that into account and show some grace, while gently guiding the student toward more acceptable behavior.

     

    It seems that the issues would be better addressed in person, maybe with the adult prepared to offer assistance in specific ways? But honestly, this adult seems too hurt by this student to be able to do it in a loving fashion.

     

    A couple things were wince-inducing:

    The last sentence of the first paragraph - ouch. Telling a 14yo they have insulted me like no other student in my extensive experience as an educator and have completely forsaken their responsibility as a Christian? Ouch. I think this did not need to be said. And I'm not sure the second paragraph is helpful beyond allowing the adult to air his/her hurt feelings.

     

    Having said all that - I've wanted to say similar things to a particular 14yo at one time.:D She "fired" me as her accompanist when our first attempt with a piece of music didn't go well. She hadn't learned her part adequately, and blamed me for the poor performance. It took all of my effort and really more grace than I actually possess to suggest that she spend more time with the music and we try again in a week. It went much better the second time. 14yo's are still in the thrall of physical changes - they don't need to have bad behavior excused, or ignored, but much patience and grace is required.

  5. What will happen when they get to be adults and realize that church isn't a cupcake? Will they stay for the protein or go elsewhere for their sugar fix?

     

    :hurray:

     

    Well said. This is a sentiment I've struggled with over the years as SS coordinator at our church. We've come to the conclusion that if we're able to mentor a small group into a lifetime faith rather than entertain a larger group, we're satisfied. (And by the looks of our teenagers right now, we're thinking it's a good strategy.)

     

    The funny thing about not having a hoo-rah, cupcake type SS? It's not the kids who object; it's the parents! They see their friends bragging about the multi-media SS their kids go to with the praise band and prizes each week, and they start to wonder what our kids are misssing. The kids, on the other hand, love to come to Sunday School and sing the goofy songs and hear that Jesus loves them. They love to be with the friends they've made who are more like family, and spend time with their teachers.

  6. This was a huge problem for me when I started homeschooling. After a few months, I realized I was doing the same thing I hated when dds' teachers did it at PS - giving feedback on a topic that was several days (or even weeks!) old, after we'd moved past it, and when it was difficult, if not too later altogether to revisit it.

     

    After that revelation, we started a system of correcting papers together at the start of the next lesson. So before starting today's grammar, we'd go over yesterday's work together and correct mistakes. Sometimes we'd decide to review that lesson rather than move on. It's made a huge difference in catching comprehension problems and with dds' retention of topics. It also makes a difference for dds to be involved in the grading. Then it's not me telling them that they're wrong (or even worse - a completely abstract "grade" at the top of the paper). They're able to see mistakes, and address them immediately.

  7. I think I should warn you all that this show will likely not be on long. Me liking it is usually the kiss of death for any new show, except for Lost. ;) And I really like it ...

     

    Then it's doubly cursed, because I like it too. Let's hope it doesn't go the way of My Own Worst Enemy, Life, Life on Mars, The Unusuals. . .

     

    And OP - as far as cloning yourself - Hulu is your friend! (Now if they would only get Criminal Minds!)

  8. I have white hair, and am in the process of letting it grow. It is driving me crazy, and I am struggling mightily with the temptation to just cut it. I am glad to read this thread, take a deep breath, and just walk away from the scissors. :)

     

    You have beautiful hair! (I remember running into you at a Cincinnati conference.):) I think it will look great long.

     

    One of my grandmothers had pure white hair, the other silver gray. Mine is starting to turn in earnest now, and I'm hoping for white. I would love to have long white hair some day.

  9. We've used it for 5th and now 6th grades. I generally like it.

     

    History is acceptable (esp. Am. history [5th & 8th grades here] - which used Hakim, which we were using anyway.) We're using their world history now. It's complementing the foundation she had in early grades with TWTM, so no complaints on that yet, either.

     

    Science, we like. I've been very happy with literature choices, and the vocabulary series they use is one I would have selected on my own (Vocab from Classical Roots for 6th and up).

     

    A major weakness is grammar - I think she's actually regressed in knowledge! Rod and Staff is a much more rigorous program.

     

    I didn't start out liking the math program. We were just about to switch her from Singapore (which was not going well) to Saxon (with which we had a good experience with older dd) when we started , but K12 uses Sadler-Oxford. Dd has made phenomenal progress (the lessons seemed paced just right for her), so I'm a believer now. :)

     

    If you have any specific questions, feel free to pm me!

  10. The bedroom arrangement thread made me wonder. Does everyone have "assigned spaces" in your bed? Is your side always your side? Is it possible to switch from time to time?

     

    Dh and I always have slept in the same place. I can't even imagine sleeping on the other side. In fact, if he's out of town, I may move a tad toward the middle, but don't even think of sleeping elsewhere in the bed.

     

    Switching places is so unthinkable that it almost seems impossible.

     

    So what say you - has anyone done this, or can you even imagine doing it?

  11. from the library.

     

    The weather outside today looks more like November than end-of-September. It reminded me to reserve Something Wicked This Way Comes for the annual reading!

     

    I have never been able to put my finger on why I like to re-read this every year. The coming of age and end of innocence themes must resonate this time of year. And pair it with the creepiness underlying the local fall county fair and carnivals in general, and it's my perfect October novel!

     

    Anyone else have weird, inexpicable rituals like this?

  12. ETA: missed the "low or no meat" requirement. This uses chicken broth & ham, though if you reduced the ham to 1/2 that, you would still get the flavor and the soup would still be plenty hardy! :)

     

    This is one of my favorite, favorite soup recipes (and I'm not even a big lentils fan!) Originally from Cooking Light, here's a link to My Recipes that shows a picure that will absolutely convince you to make it!

     

    In spite of the long directions, it's very simple and relatively quick to make.

     

    Ingredients

    1 1/2 tablespoons olive oil

    1 cup chopped onion

    3 garlic cloves, minced

    5 cups fat-free, less-sodium chicken broth

    1 cup dried lentils

    1/2 cup chopped carrot

    2 bay leaves

    3 cups chopped Swiss chard, collard greens, or spinach

    1 1/2 cups chopped baking potato

    1 cup chopped smoked ham

    1 (14.5-ounce) can diced tomatoes, drained

    1 teaspoon dried basil

    1/2 teaspoon dried thyme

    1/2 teaspoon black pepper

    3 tablespoons chopped fresh parsley

    Preparation

    Heat oil in a Dutch oven over medium-high heat. Add onion and garlic; sauté 5 minutes. Add broth, lentils, carrot, and bay leaves; bring to a boil. Partially cover, reduce heat, and simmer 20 minutes. Add Swiss chard, potato, and ham; bring to a boil. Reduce heat; simmer 15 minutes or until potato is tender. Stir in tomatoes, basil, thyme, and pepper; simmer 10 minutes. Discard bay leaves. Sprinkle with parsley.

  13. OK - I've examined commercial and industrial rate structures pretty closely for different clients, but I've not actually ever dug into residential rates. :D

    I'm about to run out the door, so I'll say what I can quickly!

     

    Here's a quick explanation of a typical residential electric rate structure.

     

    As you can see, part of your bill is a flat rate, not dependent on your usage. And usage cost is on a sliding scale - less expensive for higher tiers, so you're trimming a smaller component of your usage cost (not proportional.)

     

    HTH - I'll be checking back later and can maybe explain more then!

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