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  1. Thanks. I'm just frustrated by this pervasive attitude in the homeschool community that larger amount of time homeschooling=expert at homeschooling in general. I tend to not see things as so black or white. I find it borderline offensive, honestly, to insinuate that we have *nothing* to add simply b/c of our kids' age or our little experience. I don't liken it not having kids at all and offering potty training advice. To me, it's not the same.

     

    I think I'm taking this too personally. :lol:

     

    I'll admit that I've given potty training advice on this board :D, but I warned the OP that it was a 2nd-hand idea that worked for a friend. The OP liked this idea and said she might try it.

     

    I'm very open and honest with the fact that I've never homeschooled and only have a toddler. I try not to post anything that is beyond my experience, but I do weigh in with ideas sometimes. I hope I don't come across as thinking I'm an expert, because I know I'm not.

     

    However, since I've...

     

     

    • been a child/teen (and have a VERY good memory)

    • taught jr. high

    • subbed for K-12

    • spent years working as my mom's teacher's aide

    • read extensively

    • attended church

    • taught Sunday School & AWANA

    • learned with Saxon for 3 years

    • had siblings

    • lead a youth group

    • survived adolescence emotionally unscathed and with a great relationship with my parents

    • babysat 200+ kids

    • dated (and intentionally NOT dated while in HS, which is maybe more impressive)

    • been married almost 8 years

    • played sports

    • played an instrument

    • tutored college

    • tutored elementary & HS

    • frequented homeschooling boards for 10 years

    • dual-enrolled in ps and private school

    • attended college

    • hung out at the houses of homeschool veterans

    • lived overseas

    • composed mostly-coherent sentences for almost 3 decades:D

    • possessed a brain for all of my life:lol:

    • etc.

     

    ...I think I have things to add to the general discussion sometimes despite my lack of personal homeschooling experience.

     

    I've been given great ideas from a myriad of sometimes unexepected sources, and I often pass them on with the disclaimer that a friend told me this or that worked for her.

     

    When possible, I try to evaluate any idea or suggestion in life based on its merits, not on the source or the attitude with which it was delivered. Homeschool moms aren't the only ones who get unsolicited naive advice and I've done plenty of eye-rolling in my life.;)

  2. I wondered this as well. Why would a college student who has NO children (marriage hasn't been even mentioned, so I don't think she is) even circulate these boards? The only thing I can think of is that she is writing a paper and needs to do some surveying for her class. UGH!!!!!!:glare:

     

    I really feel the OP posted naively. She can't possibly even have the life experience that marriage, parenting, and life with your own family can possibly give. Which, I think, may be the heart of why I find the OP is so irritating.

     

    While I agree that the OP is inexperienced and her post/rant reveals that, I think it is short-sighted and harsh to discourage prospective homeschoolers from gleaning information here!

     

    I've been frequenting homeschool boards since I was a 19-year-old unmarried college student and have been active on this board since before my son was born. I didn't do this for any class, but rather for my own edification. I take the education of my child (and hopefully future children) seriously and want to prepare for it now. Just as we would expect classroom teachers to spend years preparing to teach, isn't it reasonable to expect future homeschool teachers to prepare to teach their own children as well? Yes, this means that veterans will sometimes find our opinions naive and annoying, but isn't it through expressing our ideas and getting feedback that we learn and grow?

     

    I also think it is foolish to be automatically dismissive of anything a childless person has to say on the subject of children and education. Childless people can bring in the perspective of a student, teacher, former teen, babysitter, etc. which I believe can add value to the discussion. I personally try to stay out of conversations that are beyond my experience, but I would hate to think that everything I've posted is worthless simply because I only have a toddler.

  3. Granted, I don't have kids that age yet, but I wouldn't do or say anything. If she trusts her kids enough to ride around and go to the park with yours, I doubt she expected you to stay in the yard and make sure that the boys didn't go home on their own. She asked you to tell them to wait. I'm sure they worked it out on their own once she figured out that the older one didn't do as she asked and I doubt she expects you to give it a second thought. The kid disobeyed his mom, not you, right? You were just relaying the message from his mom? I wouldn't say anything to him unless he disobeys your house rules or disobeys his mom in a way that she doesn't know about.

  4. I cried a bit today as the crib came down. My baby is growing up so fast! He turned 16 months on Friday and decided to celebrate by climbing out of his crib.:glare: I broke my arm at 18 months doing the same thing but fortunately he appears to be more coordinated. Since then he's been sleeping on his mattress on the floor, but today I found this race car bed at the thrift store. He is SO excited about it. We spent 30 min. in his room this evening, and he ignored all his toys and climbed all over it and jumped on it exclaiming "tar!" Tomorrow I'm going to sew that piece of robot fleece into a blanket.

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  5. I had to quit looking because I was gasping for breath!

     

    I once knew a professor who was frequently called Dr. Doom by his students. After several months of trying to figure out how this name fit him, I finally asked him. I turned out that one of his lazy students let Microsoft Word auto correct the spelling in a paper that he handed in. Thus, Dr. Odom became Dr. Doom! He found it so amusing that he decided to keep his new name.

  6. Since we're planning to homeschool Keaton all the way through high school, I though we'd better get busy replicating 13 years of the school socialization experience at home. Now I can cross off "get stuffed in a locker.":D (Ok, maybe not, since he did it himself with a smile on his face).

     

    When I taught jr. high, two popular 8th grade girls were horrified that I was planning to homeschool. "Mrs. R, please don't homeschool your kids. They will be weird!" I laughed and said, "With my husband and me for parents, my kids will be weird no matter what."

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  7. Today DS is working on:

     

    identifying his toes (he points at his nose currently)

    sorting shapes in his bucket

    interpretive dance (to techno baby music at the moment)

    pointing out ball, dog, block, train, dinosaur, sock, balloon, and truck in his favorite book "How do Dinosaurs Say Goodnight?"

    PE at the park

    Foreign language (Water = Oi-duh, I want water = Oi-duh, goi-duh, oi-duh, goi-duh-goi)

     

    Ok, so maybe this doesn't count as home schooling yet but I'm in a silly mood!:D

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