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  1. So lovely to hear from you, Catwoman. I've been thinking of you and your family often and am happy to hear that all is well.

     

    Our homeschooler is graduating from high school a year early, is applying to colleges to study International Relations plus Arabic and Chinese (has been studying both already), and is very hopeful of a gap year courtesy of Rotary :)

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  2. D will probably be taking a gap year to study abroad (Rotary). We'll know for sure which country in the next few weeks.

     

    She applied to college this year. She only applied to schools that defer admissions and merit scholarships for gap years. This information was found on the schools' websites, sometimes buried and sometimes not.

     

    Gap years for language and culture acquisition are looked at very favorably for students like my D who intend to study International Relations and critical languages at universities designated as Language Flagships.

     

    There are multiple inexpensive programs for gap year study abroad. These programs are sponsored by the government and are essentially free (but for passport and a few other fees, maybe insurance): NSLI (language focus), Kennedy-Luger YES (culture based; countries w significant Muslim populations), CBYX (Germany), and one for Lithuania whose name escapes me right now. Rotary Exchanges pay for all but airfare, passport and visa fees, and insurance. Rotary and NSLI students (not sure if the others) receive small monthly stipends of ~$60-100 US in the host country currency.

  3. She decided to add a RD school at almost the last moment---essays are all written but need one more read-through before she hits submit on CA.

     

    And then we wait for any scholarship/honors applications that may arise. Plus maybe a scholarship application for summer language study if the blasted freaking Rotary falls through (a whole different vent thread in waiting grrr)

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  4. I only buy clicky pens. If someone else wants cap pens, s/he is welcome to use her/his own money.

     

    My wonderful dh cleans up after dinner every night that I cook---packs food away, loads and runs the dishwasher, washes the hand dishes, grinds coffee and sets the timer on the coffee maker. It's awesome.

     

    But he never wipes down the counter between the coffee grinder and the sink, where the dirty dishes sat while he was washing. So when I stmbke diwn in the morning I see a trail of ground coffee (because some always spills) through last night's crumbs. Makes me crazy.

  5. Yes we do, a medium-ish one that will run the fridge, the chest freezer, the stove, a section of outlets and lights in the kitchen, and the furnace. (Hot water heater is the only gas appliance.)

     

    We had an electrician wire it into the box. It lives outside in its own little shed dh made.

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  6. You may still be surprised. And your son may do all these things - just not with you.

    For my DS, a lot of interaction with others happened online before he found his live "tribe". Some IRL friends, some cyber-only friends. He reads philosophy, follows politics, debates - with his circle. I probably don't know half of what he reads, thinks, ponders, because he does not have the need to share this with us parents; he has a rich inner life that is his own.

    He just is so not like me. And that's OK.

    Yes, this! D has in-depth conversations online (with irl friends and friends she's never met) about so many topics. Every once in a while she'll share a series of posts (or texts or someone's Snapchat story) that blows me away.

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