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  1. By 'parents' I mean you and DH. I am concerned about the ethical issues of doing some kind of full genetic mapping of a healthy child that the parents would have access to. It just seems like too much to me - a loss of privacy for a future adult. Eventually we may be able to get more and more information from genetic profiling. I am not sure, as an adult, that I would want my parents to know everything about me that this would reveal.

    Let's say that they had a firm marker for Alzheimer's. This is something that would not affect me until I was all grown. But if my parents learned I had it at 10, and then shared that with their closest friends and relatives, it's easy to imagine that by the time I was 21, lots of people would know. It could affect my job and marriage prospects. But even if my parents honored my privacy, I might still feel robbed of the chance to decide for myself if I wanted them to know.

     

    All 3 of my children had genetic testing last summer.  My oldest is the only one that tested positive for what we were looking for.  His disease may not affect him until much later in life, but we needed to know if he had the gene mutation.  Yes, lots of people will know by the time he is grown.  Yes, it will affect his future spouse and even if he will have children. It will take a very special woman to marry someone who has a disease that we know is genetic and can be passed on.  Will it affect his job?  Possibly, if he needs surgery to remove a tumor that will develop with our particular disease. But can I guarantee my son will not care a bit about if I invade his privacy by having him tested.  If anything, he'll be thankful that we know, so we can treat a very ugly disease that is often misdiagnosed. 

     

    In our case, we were looking for a very specific thing in doing the genetic testing that affected not just his life and his parents, but also his siblings.  My two negative children have other issues to deal in being negative.  They have will to come to terms with that they might be caregivers at some point to me or their brother.  They may even deal with guilt that they don't have it and were spared.  So, this is a heavy issue.  My husband has also had some difficult moments.  We didn't know I had the mutation before we married or had children.  Had we known it might have changed how we planned for our family or if we would have married at all.  Regardless of the ifs, he has been supportive, loving, and an advocate for us.  He drives us to appointments and sits endless hours waiting while imaging tests are done on us.  He listens and allows me to cry when I need to.

     

    OP, I don't know the specifics, but in our case, genetic testing was medically necessary and life saving.  If that's the case, then yes, go for it. 

     

     

  2. He is mechanically minded.  He constantly reads and explains how things work (just wasn't able to it yesterday for whatever reason), so that is not the issue.  We have covered various things in science.  He has also completed WWS 1.  So this assignment is not beyond him. He has always been a reluctant writer, but WWS has been good for him and has helped him really grow in writing.  I gave him some books to look at and told him to sit down and get it done. Playing mean mommy today on Saturday. 

  3. I'm not sure what to think.  This kid is smart...brilliantly smart.  But it seems as if he has lost his ability to think.  He cannot seem to figure out how to describe a machine or tell me even orally how one works.  I have been through machine after machine, given him books to look at with machines in them, and he just looks at me and as if I'm asking him to do brain surgery or something. 
     

     

    :cursing:

     

    I'm beginning to wonder if I'm just asking too much for his age.  Am I being to rigorous?  Do I just need to step back and let him do narrations and dictations for a few weeks and then come back to it? 

     

     

     

  4. I had to google it.  It looks very interesting and Pintrest has lots of little cute hexagon patterns with anything from cupcakes to animals to make the hexagons super cute. 

     

    Personally, that project is too big for me to undertake.  My attention span is too short.  I've been knitting a blanket for dd for 2 years.  I have a lot left and might finish by the time she gets married.  I prefer shorter projects: dishcloths, scarves, hats.  They give me just enough to fill my need to knit, but success at actually finishing a project.  Which is why the blanket is not done...too much project.  I am also a seasonal knitter.  When the weather is warm, I prefer to be out running or biking with my spare time.

  5. Yes, horrible wind here. I am so tired of it. Our new roof is damaged again. We had it fixed 2 weeks ago and last night's blizzard took shingles off again. It was a very noisy night between the 55-60 mile/hr winds and the flapping shingles. I am ready for a hot summer!

  6. I would not skip WWS 1.  WWS 1 is very meaty.  My 6th grader began it in 5th grade and is just now working on the final project.   While the books are written to be done in 36 weeks.  I think that is pushing it.  It has taken us more time than that.  But slowing down has been better than tears and frustration.  Ds has learned far more than narrations in WWS 1.

  7. In order of operations, you don't have to add before subtracting or multiply before dividing. You work left to right and do any multiplication/division *in the order you come to it* before you do any addition/subtraction *in the order you come to it*. If a subtraction comes before an addition while working left to right, you subtract first.

    This makes sense to me and gives me the "why" ds needs. It is what I was thinking, but he kept referring to PEMDAS. In his mind, the addition should be done first regardless of working left to right.
  8. Ds worked a problem in Saxon 8/7 today. It involved order of operations. His answer is wrong according to the solution manual, and I see how they got the answer, but I can't explain the why they did what they did. 

     

    Here is the problem:

     

    24 - 4 x 5 divided by 2 + 5 (The problem is written horizontally with a little division sign where I have written divided by)

     

    Here is what ds did.

     

    He multiplied 4 and 5 = 20 Then divided 20 by 2. He then had 24 - 10 + 5.  He then added 10 + 5, then did 24-15 = 9. 

     

    The solution manual shows he worked it fine up till he got 24 -10 + 5.  Then it shows to subtract then add.  24 - 10 = 14  Then add the 5. 14 + 5 = 19.

     

    The lesson refers back to order of operations.  According to that he should add before subtracting, but in this case the solution manual shows something different.  If you can follow this, can you explain why to me?

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