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  1. We had a ladies group "adopt" our grade 2/3 classroom and send us stuff we needed like glue sticks but also things like little knitted hats and mitts which we kept for  kids who lost their mitts.  They also included things like little knitted dolls that my class adored playing with for indoor recess.  Maybe there is a school near-by that might welcome your little crocheted animals? 

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  2. I hated it. Some classes were wonderful, others were just dreadful.  Some kids will really do their best to be as difficult as possible when a substitute was there.   Sadly so did some of the teachers.   Everyday was a different grade and different school and different rules at each one that regular staff were surprised I didn't know.  They seemed unaware that every school had different procedures for attendance, detentions, lunch orders, bathroom breaks,  where to line up, etc.  Some staff were quite friendly, but that was really a hit or miss thing.  But in our board , they only hire from the substitute list so it was a necessary evil. I was very glad when I finally had a classroom of my own.  

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  3. On 6/25/2023 at 8:37 PM, MJmom said:

    My sons high school gave him a fine arts credit for his Digital Media class. They learned photoshop and video editing. For a STEM kid who doesn’t like art,  I’d definitely do something with computers. 

    Agree with this!  

  4. 57 minutes ago, Lori D. said:

    Friendly Chemistry -- covers the bases and is gentle.
     

    Also, as a complete bunny trail from your request 😉 -- in regards to your DS "not seeing the point of school" and you trying to "steer towards interests/lead to a job later"... What about investigating the vocational-tech programs at your local community college (CC) as dual enrollment and start dabbling with some of those courses to see what may be of interest in the broad vo-tech field, or even potentially graduate high school simultaneously with a certificate or AAS?

    Just to encourage you -- our DS#2 never saw the point of school. We gave him the best education we could all the way through homeschooling to graduation, and had a set of high school credits that were "college prep" in case he ever decided to head that way... But we also did a lot of flexible things for HOW we did credits to "fish" for potential interests. We also included a wide variety of extracurriculars so he could explore, too. Also, a lot of career exploration to get exposure to non-traditional occupations to see if anything there would spark interest. It really just took time, and getting out there working and doing various things until he could start narrowing things down.

    Both my guys were "late-bloomers" about figuring out 

    Also, you might check out these past threads for some out-of-the-box ideas for a student who is not "into" school/academics, and is potentially non-college bound:

    "Launching an average kid"
    "Non-college bound students"
    "I get so depressed reading some posts on this board" 
    (anyone else NOT have over-achievers?)
     

    Forgive me if I overstepped or misunderstood and added not-needed info on a bunny trail not of help or interest to you. 😉
    Wishing you and DS all the BEST! Warmest regards, Lori D.

    I know I am not the OP but thank you for this post.  It is a relief to know I am not the only one.  I want to write a whole bunch of stuff but don't want take over someone else's thread.  But thanks.

  5. On 6/27/2023 at 10:02 AM, wintermom said:

    We use ultrasonic mouse and rat deterants, and they've been working great. They were recommended by a friend who has had excellent results with their's. They do not bother house pets (unless you have a pet rodent). They plug into an electric socket and then you're done. So easy! Only cost me $30 from the local hardware store.

    Just a thought, if you'd like a quick and easy way to ward them off without having to trap them all (or hope you get it right). 

    I am going to echo this!  We live in a rural area and had to move into assigned housing that had been unoccupied for awhile and had a huge mouse problem!!  Those ultrasonic sensors REALLY help keep them away though.  

    And no having to dispose of dead mouse bodies later which is a plus!

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  6. The fire near us is now at 1600 hectares.  I can't seem to find an air quality rating on the map as we are too obscure but we are under a "Special Air Quality Message".   If I can just finish getting the house packed up, I can fly out of here.  But I am too tired to pack any more tonight.

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  7. It is lovely and sunny today, without being too hot, and without being too smokey thank goodness.   Internal weather of the house:  one very grumpy teenager who is tired of helping mom pack up the house to move.  Possibly storm ahead, with internet outage likely due to mom tucking it somewhere hidden until she gets help.  

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  8. Oddly chilly for summer.  About 12 degrees Celsuis. Kind of strange since the fire is still going like crazy so you would think it would be hot just from that.  Last week sweating like crazy, today I put a sweater on!!

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  9. Good morning!

    So far, I have dropped off my friend and his family at the airport and begun cleaning my kitchen cupboards.  Yesterday was the last day of school, so YAY for that!  However, I had to move classrooms and managed to throw my back out, so I am moving very carefully today. And I am moving houses finally and get to go be in the same city as my husband again.  Feeling very intimidated by all there is to do this weekend.

    Plans for today:

    Finishing cleaning out food cupboards.

    Clean out fridge and freezer. 

    Help teenage son finish 2 drama assignments that need to be handed in. 

    Apply for another job as the one I started keeps trying to add random things to my original teaching assignment.  

    Finish packing up my bedroom.

    Tackle son's closet with his help. 

    Tackle the back bedroom and pack up sewing supplies and whatever is in closet.

    Pack up tool area.  

    Possibly take pictures of some bookshelves and post on local buy and sell to get rid of them.  

    Sort through what I brought home from school to see if it really needs to come or should just be thrown out.

    I am tired just thinking about all of it.   

    Good luck everyone with all your chores for the day!

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  10. This issues caused huge communication issues for my husband and me at the beginning of our marriage.  I am a huge visual thinker and he is hugely words only/ non-visual.  We would have the most frustrating conversations as I was often using "visual" oriented words that he simply could not relate to.   So for example:   What do you see us doing this summer?   What do you picture as the perfect house?  What is your vision of a job you would love?   Since he couldn't picture ANYTHING,  he often just answered  "I don't know."   It drove me crazy because I just thought he was shutting me out or not trying.  It drove him crazy, because he honestly couldn't even figure out what I was trying to get at.   We were years into our marriage before we realized that that kind of terminology will generate zero useful information in our conversations.   I don't think I have found the perfect terminology yet, but I try hard to steer clear of any terminology that implies he will need to "envision" something.

    Whereas if I think of the future or the perfect house, or the ideal job,  I get an instant stream of images and movie shorts that need to be sorted through to find the one that "feels" right.  I have a hard time putting all those images into simple , understandable words. I still picture emotions as colours and have the hardest time trying to name what emotion I am even feeling.  I had no idea everybody else's head wasn't a constant stream of movies, images and ongoing dialogue.   It is so interesting to see how different we really are, right down to how we think.  

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  11. 1 hour ago, Carol in Cal. said:

    I’m so sorry.   I’ve been in CA when it’s like that here, and it’s just awful.  The sky is a sinister color, and the air stinks, and there really isn’t quite enough oxygen ever.  And those wildfires are so capricious and unpredictable.

    Any chance you could skip gym until this is finished?  I think it’s pretty harmful to drive that stuff down into your lungs, and exercising when there is insufficient oxygen can do more harm than good.

    I always feel bad cancelling gym.  The kids look forward to it so much despite everything.  Today we just pulled out some balls and scooters and let them mess around a bit, so it wasn't so active. 

  12. ((Hugs))  Telling someone about their sister's death is going to be hard no matter what.  I think maybe even harder because she is so young, and that makes it so unexpected.  ( both your daughter and her little sister)  I have no concrete suggestions on how to tell her, but do very gently suggest you be prepared for a wide range of possible reactions in dealing with the news:  from numbness, to disbelief, to anger, and of course sorrow.  The loss of a sibling, even one you didn't know very well, still leaves an empty place.  My thoughts are with you and your family as you go through this. 

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  13. 2 hours ago, prairiewindmomma said:

    Hugs! It’s been such a rough year for so many already.

    Wildfire smoke increases body inflammation = joint hurting. Do you have NAC or quercetin or some other anti-inflammatory types of supplements?

    I was joking with Dh that I was ready for my cyberpunk helmet after I saw apple’s new Vision Pro. I just want those goggles set into a helmet that protects my eyes and filters my air.

    I hadn't realized the smoke would affect my joints.  I am usually more worried about the asthma. No, I don't have any anti-inflammatory supplements, but I will look into them.

    You can see how tired even the kids are.  We have gym first thing and the last few days, the kids are all sitting on the bleachers after 20-30 minutes telling me how tired they are. 

    I am so ready for summer to be here.

  14. We live about 3 miles or so from the biggest one in Ontario right now.  It has been going for a little over 2 weeks and mostly did not affect us as the wind was blowing all the smoke away from the community.  But now the fire expanded slightly to the west, jumped one of the rivers AND the wind started blowing this way.  

    My eyes are just dying.   Something about the smoke made every joint in my body feel like it was on fire yesterday.  And I slept like crazy after work yesterday.  If school were finished , I would self-evacuate, but we have 2 more weeks, so I am hanging on.   Just hoping the whole community might decide to evacuate.  

    There is nothing to do, and I know there is smoke all over due to the fires in Canada so I am not alone.  But just sitting here on the couch, dreading going to work.  The kids are so unhappy from the heat and the smoke.  Plus we were about to do a camping trip that is now cancelled.    

    Just having my own little pity party here.

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  15. 53 minutes ago, Farrar said:

    I played around with having Chat GPT mark essays and if that's essentially how she did it - had the AI look at the work and the standards and write the comments, then she really IS naive. I couldn't get it to accurately count some basic things in an essay and it forgot the rubric really fast. I had actually hoped that it would be able to do some basic checking of an essay for me so that then I could review the holistic aspects and not focus on the number of times the essay did x, y, or z. But it can't do it. So I gave up.

    This exactly.   But I don't think she even gave it the actual standards.  As far as I could tell, she just wrote "( province name) Grade 4 math standards" and somehow assumed it actually would go find the standards and use them as the basis for her comments.  

    I have no problem with generic comments. Everyone does cut and paste because we are encouraged to , quite frankly.  

    But generic comments based on what AI thinks our math standards might be is something completely different.  We are off in la-la land at that point.  

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  16. Just now, Jean in Newcastle said:

    I have worked with lazy teachers who did the bare minimum and had long lost any love they had for teaching. And I have worked with overwhelmed teachers who saw things like report cards as busy work, not totally meaningless but not really vital. The latter group of teachers didn’t skimp on actual teaching or in giving feedback to parents in other ways. I have no idea which group this teacher might be in. 

    She really is brand new.  I think probably overwhelmed but also a titch touchy because she is so new.  She just finished her practicum with us and immediately started working for us as we are so short teachers.  I was her mentor teacher ( on an emergency basis)  but she is now officially my colleague.  I think she honestly does not know what the standards are for her grade.   I just had to explain what Oral Communication is.   I just don't want her blindly plugging in whatever the AI tells her, convinced it must be "right" .  Sigh.  I would imagine she sees the report cards as busy work. 

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  17. I guess I just still think she should be aware enough of the curriculum objectives in our province to be aware that the AI is not generating anything specific enough to report on. It is just way too vague.  "This student can consistently do all operations. " is not the kind of thing we normally say. It just doesn't really tell the parents enough information.

    I would be more likely to say,  " This student can consistently add and subtract numbers to the 10,000's independently, and apply this ability to solving word problems. This student can sometimes multiply and divide 2 digit by 2 digit equations, and is developing their ability to apply this to word problems." 

     This lack of awareness of her grade expectations and objectives has come up in other ways as well, this was just the most surprising way to me.  

    Also fairly surprised that most people think it is a non-issue, but I guess that is what I was wondering. 

  18. I just had a new teacher all excitedly showing me how she used ChatGPt  to create report card comments .  She included instructions to do it at her Grade Level and use our province's curriculum documents for different grade levels.  I took a quick look at it, and it was fairly generic stuff. None of it seemed to strike me as actually representing specific curriculum expectations.   For example,  it had statements like,  " This student is consistently able to solve word problems." It didn't specify which operations, or at what level,  or in which topic.  It is generic enough that it could represent any grade really , not specifically her grade,  I  tried to point out that I wouldn't really trust it unless I sat down and compared it to her actual grade level expectations/ objections, to be sure it was accurate.   She was frustrated that I wasn't as immediately enthusiastic as she was.  I was frustrated that I couldn't immediately put into words how wrong this felt to me,  and just walked away rather than get in an argument. 

    Am I just an old fuddy-duddy?   I would be fairly annoyed if I thought my son's report card was computer generated rather than teacher generated, but is this just me? Also, unless I misunderstand how the AI works, just because she "told" it to use our province's curriculum expectation doesn't mean it actually did, right?  

     

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