Just a lurker here, but if it were me, I would rent an RV to drive to the ceremony. You can stay where you want, your hotel covers the RV rental, and it's just an awesome way to travel. One of my kids favorite vacations ever was the year we rented an RV and did a tour of Arizona/Grand Canyon/ Sedona.

I am a bit of a quiet lurker, but thought I'd contribute since I've just recovered from this myself. I had a strang crusty rash on my eyelids. I tried everything to fix it. When it spread to my eyebrows and the crease in my neck, I went to the dermatologist. She diagnosed it as seborrhic dermatitis as a result of an environmental allergen and told me to wash my face with Neutrogena T-gel shampoo. I had been using Oil of Olay products for years. I washed my face with the t-gel for a couple of days and woke up one morning with the rash spread all around my eyes like a raccoon. It was kind of frightening. After a Google search, I went out and bought Toleriane face wash and moisturizer. That's all I use. The whole mess cleared up in a week, even the stuff that had been there for six months. I must have developed a sensitivity to the oil of Olay, and obviously do not do well with the dandruff shampoo either. The Toleriane is pricy, but I only use a little and CVS gives me coupons for it frequently. Hope this helps.

I'm a lurker, obviously, but I have such a great rheumatologist I had to register just to answer. Dr. Cathy Riker at Menlo Medical Clinic in Menlo Park. It's a bit of a drive from San Jose, but she is well worth it. I am a different person since I started seeing her in 2011. Best. Doctor. Ever. Hope this helps.