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  1. What is driving the anxiety? Has anything changed? And is he enrolled or homeschooled? What is causing the stress?

     

    Usually in autism they'll connect stress and anxiety. So as they're stressed, the rigidity and anxiety and protective behaviors kick in. Reduce the stress, increase the predictability, and gradually that overall anxiety level goes down.

     

    I'm saying it might not be one thing but several things. Are you doing anything with magnesium or l-theanine or b-vitamins? Have you added anything lately that might correspond to the increase in symptoms?

    He's homeschooled, and always has been.

     

    The biggest changes afoot are increased time with his father, both visits and phone calls. He's also become needle phobic and has been referred to a private paediatrician to get his vaccinations done under sedation. 5mg valium did not suffice last time we tried - he reported fuzzy vision and seeing stars and just looked all over terrified. Very pale, pupils dilated, trembling.

     

    So you're right, the increased anxiety hasn't come out of nowhere.

     

    No changes to any supplements. He takes a multivitamin in the day and melatonin at night.

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  2. Okay. I'll give it a go with just the book. I don't think they do workshops in Australia, and I can learn from a book just fine anyhow.

     

    I've looked up Mighteor before, upon your recommendation. When I factor in the exchange rate and the shipping cost it's a bit beyond my means, but it does look good. I understand why you'd be recommending it, and that's great that it's helping your DS. :)

  3. I almost posted this thread earlier today!

     

    My ASD kid just spent the weekend with his dad and he was a wreck this morning. He picked a battle, and I tried not to enter into to much conversation over it, then he pulled himself together so that he could attend a circus class with his best friend. Um. Okay, great!

     

    I'm nodding along to all the references to just getting the meltdown over with.

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  4. My 8yo ASD kiddo has had a few episodes of high anxiety lately which seem to be heading towards panic attacks. He also experiences some discomfort many days which he identifies as "boredom."

     

    From the little I've gleaned just from hanging around these boards a bit, I'm wondering whether understanding the Zones might be useful for both DS and myself.

     

    So how do I get started? What do I read? How do I explain it to DS in order to get him on board?

     

    Thanks in advance!

  5. Aw, thanks. :blush: I'm not feeling much like an inspiration right now. More like I'm in panic mode. I had a vague feeling about what I was going to do this year, and sat down to start getting organised about 3 days ago only to find out that I have a TON to do! I'm feeling very :willy_nilly: and a bit of :blink:. I don't think I need to buy anything, thankfully; I just need to use what I have. By the time I finish this homeschool gig, I'm going to be so SMART!!!

    You've totally got this! Here's to making many happy homeschool memories with your older boy while you still can.

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  6. Has anyone accessed this program (or similar) for their DC? I'd love to hear how it went for you.

     

    8yo DS (ASD-1 and anxiety) has been on a few trail rides of late, and a passion has been ignited. He told a friend lately, "I don't just want to ride a horse, I want to bond with a horse."

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  7. My ASD 8yo is at a stage where he needs me at-elbow for everything, including short stints of independent reading.

     

    Even then, he drags his heels a whole lot over non-preferred activities.

     

    I find that sometimes it helps to acknowledge that he isn't ready to focus. I give him a specific count to get himself together and ready for school, and I set a timer. When it rings, we put all nonsense behind us and start lessons without a fuss. I try to model this by not holding a grudge about the hold-up, which is WAY easier said than done. I find it really frustrating to feel like homeschool is dragging on all day, but I'm also careful not to turn lessons into a punitive time suck for DS. When I can get him on board and focussed, I get him through them as efficiently as possible, then quickly move him on to a preferred activity.

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  8. My 8yo should be in vision therapy but isn't (long story). We're pushing on anyway and working towards building up his reading stamina, with a goal of getting up to 30 minutes in one sitting, twice a day.

     

    He reads from the non-fiction books we check out every Monday, and we construct a mini-book on that topic by Friday.

     

    On weekends we have more time for buddy-reading. Our current read is Eldest, from the Eragon series by Christopher Paolini.

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  9. How goes the planning?

     

    DS and I started back at our homeschool today. We both need the structure. We had a little planning meeting at the city library today. I had a coffee and he had a cookie. We wrote this week's plan into his shiny new diary, then we picked out some books for his current research topic, and got stuck into it.

     

    DS is 2E with ASD and going into grade 3.

     

    We've started with our daily basics:

    - Reading

    - Spelling

    - Maths

    - Writing

     

    Next week we'll return to last year's Morning Time plans, which consist of:

    - A picture (drawing or art history)

    - A poem (read or recite)

    - A story (readaloud)

    - A song (I play guitar and we sing together)

     

    And when that's going well we'll add

    M/W/F: grammar

    Tu/Th: history

     

    I'd love to see what others have planned!

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