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  1. If supplements worked you would see millions of people with high cholesterol

    flocking to the health store. The fact is millions of people take statins to reduce cholesterol. Lipitor has studies that show heart attack prevention. If your husband has, as you state, very high numbers, do you really want to risk cholesterol build up in his arteries? That would be worse then the fact he would have a "drug"in his system.

  2. Currently it's minus 1 outside and ds 14 and 11 turned the heat up to 73. Yikes! It's cold but they need to put something warm on! Does anyone have a good source for warm pajamas? I'd like to buy them for

    Christmas eve or before. The 11 year old is a little easier to buy for, as my 14 is size 14 or 16 depending on the fit. Any suggestions appreciated.

     

    Thanks,

    Carol

  3. Age and maturity aren't the same thing. My hubby was a teacher at a school for year 11 and 12 students, and there was talk amongst the teachers. There seems to be a significant transitory population amongst the student body. If they can't go home, they have to go somewhere. Pooling resources isn't enough to rent a house. Dh and I had trouble getting this place, and we are a respectable young family with plenty of previous renting experience. Using pleasant and nice behaviour to get someone to look after them is not a bad thing, if they still need looking after. What else have they got to offer? It's unofficial fostering, I guess. It's hard being in that in-between place, of being a legal adult, but not having the maturity or experience to live like one. While there are some with Peter Pan syndrome, there are plenty who are doing their best and need a hand for a bit longer than their parents were willing/able to manage.

     

    Rosie

     

    Every generation's parents always expresses concerns about unmotivated slacker kids-------but yet somehow these kids end up with careers, mortgages and kids of their own. And some day when they have teens they"ll talk about how all these kids today are slackers.

  4. I've read several posts that state their 15, 14, 13 year olds are in bed over the summer between 9-10? Whats your secret?

     

    I have a hard enough time telling my DS he can't be outside with friends after dark...I don't want mine roaming. There are 14/15 year olds running around the neighborhood here until 10-11 (sometimes later...yikes). We compromise that my 14 ds has to be in the house by dark, get himeslf ready for bed----but can stay up till 11:30 or so during the summer months. He can read some nights or other nights tv/xbox, etc. Its a little hard because hubby and I don't want him up later than us---and we mormally go to bed at 11....but during the summer we'll stay up a little bit later. Just no "couple time".

  5. Well, I think ideally you would give him this freedom, but I guess if he can't handle it, what choice is he giving you but to set the limit for him?

     

    First question: How long have y'all been at this? Could y'all just not have found the situation that works for all of you yet?

     

    We've been home for years----when he turned 13 we thought we should try not to be preceptive about bedtime....and now I'm seeing that isn't working out well.

  6. Hi everyone, I've been reading for a while and decided to post. I have a 13 son and recently we have decided to let him choose his bedtime, as long as it was before 10 or 10:30. Well, of course he is pushing it to 10:30 every night and is tired in the AM and its making me rethink how much sleep he needs. He also wants to take his shower at 10:20 and get ready for bed in the last 10 minutes before bedtime---which is just crazy because my husband and I go to bed at 10:30. So we make him get ready for bed earlier now---which he doesn't like of course.

     

    Do your kids still have a nighttime routine at this age or do you let yours choose their own schedule (shower, PJ's, etc.)?

     

    What is a "reasonable" bedtime for a 13-year-old who needs to get up and start working on his assignments by 7:30 or 8?

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