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  1. I love everything about it except the time from 4:30-5:50pm. So help me.

     

    Grades 6, 4, 1.

     

    This is our second year and I keep waiting for my bubble to be burst. I love the principals, teachers, guidance counselors and office staff, curriculum, specials (gym, art, music), recess. Basically everything.

     

    It's like a huge load has been lifted off my brain. I can just be mom and it feels so good. I'm no longer responsible for making sure they're up to educational standards, have enough time with friends, get enough exercise, keep them from fighting.

     

    Whenever I see my homeschool friends now, I silently wonder why they put themselves through it. 😳

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  2. I never cry and wa shocked that I almost did at totality. Was not expecting it. I was not excited to go and dh pretty much dragged me 9 hours to see it. I'm an eclipse concert. 100% totality is way cooler than even 98%.

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  3. I don't know how to quote from my phone

     

    My reactions aren't too terrible, which is a blessing or a curse. I take way more risks than I should. Living on the edge is not healthy. It just gets so old being the gf person. I hate that eating out as a family and going on vacations is 10 times harder because of me.😩

     

    Sadly I seem to react more as time goes on. I really hope they find a cure in the next 14 years. When I was diagnosed, I told myself not to freak out because surely there will be a cure in 20 years (this was 6 years ago) and I can enjoy my 50s without food restrictions. It's not looking good though!

  4. OP, I could've written nearly your entire post . The only difference is that I was diagnosed six years ago, and I would never use a non-gluten free toaster. I definitely live on the edge though. I've eaten so called gluten-free Thai food from hole in the wall restaurants, and take small risks from time to time. I've never eaten obvious sources and gluten though. I thought certainly that I'd have crazy high antibody levels, but when I had them tested a few months ago, my TTG was only a 9. Down from 120 at diagnosis.

  5. School is so so so so so so different than homeschooling. It's like apples to oranges.

     

    I volunteered in my sons k class last year and noticed all the cute little things they did that filled up time. Not intentional time wasters, but they took time nonetheless. When they'd go somewhere in the hall, they would sing whisper a cute little song about being quiet in the hallway before they went. Stuff like that.

     

    Yes, school is not the most efficient use of time, but they're not just sitting around all day. The kids were kept plenty busy doing age-appropriate activities that I just didn't have the energy or drive or desire to do. Like glitter. Or hopping around like frogs after reading a frog book.

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  6. I sent 3 last year and they loved it. I did zero prep and all was well. They figured it all out. I even had a kid who didn't like using pencils and look who can write pages in pencil now! The teachers were all wonderful and everyone loved school. Seriously, I keep waiting for my bubble to be burst, but this school rocks my world. I'm so incredibly glad we went the public school route. ZERO regrets. Such a relief for me.

     

    The only prep I wish had done was some simple social stuff for my socially clueless kid. He kept unintentally flaunting his smarts and the other kids didn't appreciate that. I wish I had taught him how to either keep his mouth shut or correct other people more respectfully.

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  7. My situation was the same. I put her in school the year all the kids come together from different elemrnaries (5th) and it's been great.

     

    At some point the stress of having to be EVERYTHING to my daughter was making me miserable. I had to be teacher, mom, chauffeur, etc., all the while trying to be available for her to talk to (she's a talkative little thing) and take care of her siblings. I'm only one person and it's totally unnatural for a human to have to be so much to one person. This was after getting involved in tons of extra curricular and burning myself out further. School may not be the answer for you, but we tried it and have both been very happy with it.

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  8. I think I threw away my cutting boards and toaster and that was it. Maybe mesh colanders.

     

    During the first few months, expect that you will have mishaps. I still occasionally do some airhead things, like grab the wrong broth and I've been gf for 6 years. So because of this, there's really no need to replace most kitchen things. As the gluten washes out of the pots and pans, you'll be working on tweaking the diet.

     

    Fwiw, we do not have a gluten free home. We share condiments (no double-dipping) and I buy wheat bread for dh and the non-celiac kids. My daughter and husband occasionally make pies and other gluten-filled desserts. I just had another blood test and my numbers are excellent. So keep that in mind.

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  9. Celiac here. Did not need endoscopy test. Positive ttg with high numbers was enough. I was nearly asymptomatic at diagnosis. Despite the high numbers I'm not super sensitive.

     

    I'm not going to add a ton of info, because the posters above have pretty much handled it.

     

    Find Me Gluten Free is a website/app that is helpful for locating restaurants.

     

    King Arthur chocolate cake and Funfetti gf mixes are the bomb. I find funfetti at target.

     

    I mail order most gf stuff from vitacost and get everything else from Aldi and Costco.

     

    When in a bind and can't figure out what to make for dinner, follow this: meat, veggie side, potatoes/rice. Easy peasy and balanced.

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  10. Dh is not white (he's biracial with a seldom-seen combination) and he detests that question. He knows he looks different. He feels different. And when people ask this, it feels like they're saying "you're different." It gets old.

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  11. DH is a primary care doctor and that is pretty flexible since it's in such high demand.  There are women who work 2 days per week.  Obviously this isn't the greatest choice to go into after having kids (the training is insane), but if the training is in place before kids, I think this would be something feasible.

     

    The women I know with careers and kids almost all have a mother or MIL who devotes her retirement to taking care of grandkids.

    This is what I see as well.  I homeschooled until this past school year so most of my contacts are homeschooling moms who don't work outside the home, but of the people I've gotten to know that do work, a mom or MIL has done huge amounts of work to make it happen.  We're talking picking up the kids from school, taking them to soccer, walking their dog, feeding kids dinner, etc.  These moms have school-age kids and I don't know how they handled it when the kids were tiny.

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